People that you would NOT recommend.

[breathesgelatin]

Originally Posted by carnation

Now get this--a year later, another daughter went and visited that campus and we met a sorority member. She told us that an administrator had all but forced her group to pledge the girl, who had caused major drama and been kicked out within weeks.

Wow, this really relates back to some of the discussions we were having earlier this week in the quota thread.

[VandalSquirrel]

I wrote my one and only DO NOT RECOMMEND on a woman who said nasty things about my sorority and chapter to my face. It wasn't like she was repeating rumors because she was clueless about rush or had no idea I am an Alpha Gam. She then proceeded to say she only wanted to be an XYZ or an ABC and said unsavory things about the other chapters.

It blows my mind that women think we only have friends in our own chapters and wouldn't give a heads up about their behavior to our friends. If I wouldn't want a woman as my sister, to the point I'd no rec her, you best believe I pass along the info to a friend and let her chose what to do with it.