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Originally Posted by breathesgelatin
There's the just plain NO RIF, which is really unusual to get.
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That's the truth. No Recs are a real rarity. Alums have to really, really, really think this PNM is bad to write a No Rec. Most times they'll just not write a Rec at all rather than sharing negative info with the chapter.
I've gotten a mere handful over my many years of advising. Why so few considering the 1,000's of women who have gone through our formal recruitment? The biggest concern I hear from alums is they are fearful it would get out that they No Rec'd a girl. They don't want to offend the parents, family, friends, etc of this girl if it becomes known the author was the reason why this girl got dropped.
FYI - We treat No Rec authors names as "classified information" for this reason. It's on a "need to know" basis and only the advisors and Recruitment officers need to know.