Relationship issues

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Taualumna

Suggestions....what should I do?? Should we split over these issues? Talk? etc

Almost 3 years and you're asking us what you should do? Ok.

You two seem able to compromise. Learning and respecting each other's religions and cultures began almost 3 years ago. It's still a process but you two can work that out if you don't let others' opinions confuse you. You already stated that you can do a mixed Chinese and Jewish ceremony with kosher and nonkosher foods. Done deal.

If you two can reach compromise and handle whatever comes your way, his family members' opinions should have no bearing. If his family don't want to go to certain ceremonies, to hell with them. Those who want to and can attend will do so. Don't make them more important than they are.

[Taualumna]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Almost 3 years and you're asking us what you should do? Ok.

You two seem able to compromise. Learning and respecting each other's religions and cultures began almost 3 years ago. It's still a process but you two can work that out if you don't let others' opinions confuse you. You already stated that you can do a mixed Chinese and Jewish ceremony with kosher and nonkosher foods. Done deal.

If you two can reach compromise and handle whatever comes your way, his family members' opinions should have no bearing. If his family don't want to go to certain ceremonies, to hell with them. Those who want to and can attend will do so. Don't make them more important than they are.

The only issue is that he thinks that SIMULATED kosher won't be okay with some of his relatives. I guess we'll see at his sister's reception this summer.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Taualumna

The only issue is that he thinks that SIMULATED kosher won't be okay with some of his relatives. I guess we'll see at his sister's reception this summer.

Ok...........