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05-08-2008, 07:15 PM
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....but men are more visual.
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This assertion is based on........
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05-09-2008, 08:57 AM
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This assertion is based on........
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my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....
think catcalling....
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05-09-2008, 11:18 AM
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my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....
think catcalling....
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can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?
does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"
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05-09-2008, 11:41 AM
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can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?
does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"
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HEY BABAY!!!! WASSUP WITCHO' PHOINE @SS SELF!!!
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05-09-2008, 11:45 AM
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HEY BABAY!!!! WASSUP WITCHO' PHOINE @SS SELF!!!
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LOL
That sounds like the kind of man whose sociodemographics probably don't match with mine, anyway.
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05-09-2008, 11:45 AM
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HEY BABAY!!!! WASSUP WITCHO' PHOINE @SS SELF!!!
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 but still
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05-09-2008, 12:00 PM
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you know what I always hate out of the young guys...the spray can approach...
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05-09-2008, 12:04 PM
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you know what I always hate out of the young guys...the spray can approach...
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tans?
beard dyes?
What?
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05-09-2008, 11:43 AM
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Originally Posted by tld221
can i just mini-rant and go OFF about how annoying and obnoxious (and borderline embarrassing) it is to be catcalled? its like, great, you think im hot but does the whole world need to know what you'd do to me if you had the chance?
does "being visual" mean being a vulgar ass? i mean really. its flattering, but then its really not. theres a difference in being straightforward about your intentions but another to scream out "yo, we f***ing tonight?"
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It sho don't. 
And you'll notice that men who are truly secure in their masculinity and their accomplishments are least likely to do the cat calling. Unless they are succumbing to peer pressure, perhaps.
I can think of instances where females have done catcalling as a joke to tease men and let them know how stupid it is. And I can also think of the "types of men" that I can expect catcalling from versus "the types of men" who are more likely to express my hotness in a smarter way.
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05-09-2008, 11:39 AM
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my opinion is that some of us are to overtly obvious and obnoxious about it....
think catcalling....
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That isn't about being more visual than women, though.
That's about this false sense of masculinity and manhood, mixed with insecurity and a need to assert power in the dumbest of contexts.
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05-11-2008, 07:00 AM
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That isn't about being more visual than women, though.
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I do think the ingredients of desire may differ for men and women, but there are some similarities. While I did say that men are a bit more visual than women, (depending on the person) I do think that visual stimuli spur sexual stirrings in some women as they do in some men. I just think that men are more drawn to visual erotica, which explains the lure of magazines such as Playboy. I think most female desire is fueled by a richer cognitive emotional kind of thing. Kind of what PB said, but just not as one sided. I think a lot of women tend to experience desire as a result of feeling comfortable with themselves and the partner, or feeling safe and perceiving a true bond with the partner, yet the sexual imagery devoid of emotional connections can arouse some women just as it can in men. So like I said earlier to Daemon, it really altogether depends on the person. Like Dionysus said, for me too, it's so much for to it than just looks.
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05-11-2008, 07:31 AM
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If by richer cognitive emotional thing you mean financial health, social status, and masculinity then I agree.
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05-11-2008, 01:15 PM
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I do think the ingredients of desire may differ for men and women, but there are some similarities. While I did say that men are a bit more visual than women, (depending on the person) I do think that visual stimuli spur sexual stirrings in some women as they do in some men. I just think that men are more drawn to visual erotica, which explains the lure of magazines such as Playboy. I think most female desire is fueled by a richer cognitive emotional kind of thing. Kind of what PB said, but just not as one sided. I think a lot of women tend to experience desire as a result of feeling comfortable with themselves and the partner, or feeling safe and perceiving a true bond with the partner, yet the sexual imagery devoid of emotional connections can arouse some women just as it can in men. So like I said earlier to Daemon, it really altogether depends on the person. Like Dionysus said, for me too, it's so much for to it than just looks.
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You've got me goin' in circlesssssss....
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05-11-2008, 11:34 PM
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You've got me goin' in circlesssssss....
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Huh? What now, I'm generalizing again?
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I found this interesting... Take the quiz, too!!!
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It is amazing that some folks do not know this information, especially after being a college graduate... However, I would not be shocked these days... 
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