Titles

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Professor

i guess - i just say this is constance - i don't say we have exclusive for ten years, that we are a couple, this is my girl - i just say this is constance - i will admit when she introduces me she says this is michael and puts her hand in my hand - this topic reminds me of women when they marry they stop saying the guys name and start saying this is my husband

Okay, your personal story aside, can you understand the topic, though?

You've never been with "constance" and someone ask who she is to you? Like "oh, is this your wife, etc." If not, okay.

And when you aren't around "constance" and people are unfamiliar with who "constance" is, what do you say?

[Professor]

no - i don't say anything - i'm old baby so i don't normally get those questions - now i have known instances when a dude is trying to check her out so i may walk up to her put my arms around her - she then introduces me by name

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Okay, your personal story aside, can you understand the topic, though?

You've never been with "constance" and someone ask who she is to you? Like "oh, is this your wife, etc." If not, okay.

And when you aren't around "constance" and people are unfamiliar with who "constance" is, what do you say?

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Professor

baby

eh.....

Anywho, I also know older people (40s and 50s) who discuss "titles," as well as get questions or comments in professional and casual settings that solidfy the desire to know "what we should call each other."