Friends who disappear when they find a boyfriend/girlfriend

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by christiangirl

For heaven's sake, even I knew that was Goodie Mob. PB, if you told me your girlfriend is 55, I'd totally believe you.

o.k. maybe you listen to "Goodie Mob," I don't, so the name of the group doesn't ring a bell.

I'm a little confused here, because those are the things we enjoy doing with each other, she's got to be 55? I'm assuming that's what you're referring to. Well, she's not 55, that's too old for me. I prefer younger women.

Like I said before, similarities are important, at least they are for me. I think most strong relationships include at least some common interests. Common interests allow a couple to spend time together in pursuits they both enjoy. Like what was said earlier, if you like to dance, then you probably wouldn't want a joker who doesn't like to dance. To me, shared interests are very important. People who have little in common will ultimately not spend a lot of time together, or if they do, they won't be doing what they enjoy. Like I said, all of the interest are not going to be the same by any means. But you'll be better off to have some interests in common. Opposite driven relationships often confuse dependency with true love. What I mean is people may have attractions for an opposite person. At 1st they may appreciate the completion they feel with that person , but they run the risk of needing that person for those functions, and I think dependency is only part of love, it's not the full expression of love. At least it isn't to me. I think the full expression of love is to give back from a full heart.

Also I never said I would dump my friends for her. All I said was her needs come before theirs.