Sister's Fiance=A Friends Little Sister Boyfriend

[Krisco]

Hey Ladies and Gents!

I have a bit of a problem, as the title states, one of my sisters has a dog, I mean a man, that is a piece of crap.

I will explain, I gave away some furniture to a friend. She didn't need it, and told me her younger sister needed it. Cool

As I have a truck with a bed on it, I said "Just tell her to get a man to come over with her so he can help us get it on the truck and take it off." Cool

She(the younger sister) called me back and mentioned that her boyfriend would come over with her and help. Cool

GUUURRRLLLS! When they got over to my house, and as I was introducing myself to said boyfriend, I took a double take, yelled "Willie!" and presumed to watch his jaw drop! Small world, huh?

To make a long story short, he called her(sis#1) before I could, she called me, I confirmed it, she covered for him and the wedding is still on.

I DO NOT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS FIASCO!


People are saying that I should be there for her, and this and that. Personally, I don't see how spending money($200.00) and standing in front of GOD pretending like I agree with this is 'being' there for someone.

Ladies, this is not the first time he has been 'caught' by a family member. My other sister(business partner) has a goddaughter. This childs mother was inadvertently carrying on a sexual relationship with "willie" about 6 mos ago! We only found out about it because she mentioned that she met this great guy at work, same place that "willie" worked(key word--worked) at. As soon as sis#2 instantaneously and suspicously asked "what's the guys name?" her friend was like, say it with me ladies...WILLIE! The same damn willie. Unfreakinbelievable.

She(sis #1) stayed with him, didn't believe us or sis#2's friend.

Are we wrong, sis#2 and I?
I mean are these not signs????

I feel like we are the ones in a difficult position. We have came to the realization, that no matter what we see, say, she is not gonna leave this a-hole. I am fine with that, but I have to draw the line in the participation factor. I will attend, however.

Any comments are welcome.

I just feel bad for her and wish that the 'small world' scenario could have been to her advantage.

Feelin' Sorry in Arkansas.

[DigitalAngel126]

Sis #1 needs to get rid of that mofo!!!!! Pronto!

[#1 Leading Lady]

WOW!! Willie working his main vein like a dog in HEAT!!!

From experience....If you and others keep telling your sister all the negative stuff about Ole Wille.....she will only LOVE his azz more so even though what I am about to say is easier said then done.....TRUST it works. My suggestion is If your sister likes /loves Willie kill his azz with kindness and Do a Two Can Play That Game move " Hey Willie, How you doing? I thought that was you and keep stepping and if possible call you sister and ask her to meet and the said location and let her BUST his azz.

[CrimsonTide4]

Is this your sister as in kin or sister as in SOROR.

[stardusttwin]

I stood up in a wedding I didn't agree with (different type of drama but drama nonetheless) because people kept saying "you can't pull out-you need to be there for your friend". After going through all that drama I have to say that's bull.

Weddings are stressful enough as it is-but to stand there and watch someone make a mockery of wedding vows is a line I'll never cross again. Yes, we lost our friendship (I haven't spoken to her since the wedding), but frankly it wasn't worth saving any longer-we were moving in different directions & by the choices she was making and defending she was intent on staying entrenched in those drama filled college days (when you're young and really want to believe all his TALK when his ACTIONS show differently).

So my advice is do what you feel comfortable with. If that means pulling out do so but be prepared for backlash from her and others. She may not want you to just attend and may disinvite you all together for messing with her wedding day vision.

[Krisco]

no ct, its my 'blood' sis

Good advice stardust, I feel you so much right now