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Originally Posted by fantASTic
RedRover: while that is understandable, she must recognize that:
a). She DOES NOT KNOW that he will not receive a bid,
b). She is NOT responsible for his actions,
and
c). By telling him that he has no chance, she would be basically telling him that she thinks he is worthless. Her time is better spent in condolences IF he does not receive a bid. I would never tell my sister, sister-in-law, brother, brother-in-law, etc that they have no chance of getting a bid. That is not my decision nor is it kind.
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fanASTic! You stole my answer!! Shame on you!
Anyways, I totally agree, by telling someone they have no chance of getting a bid you (or your friend) are telling that person that they are worth less in your eyes and can't live up to your standards!
I have seen people I know that I thought had no chance at ever joining a GLO, rush, successfully receive a bid, and become better people because of it!
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