As I get older, I have been surprised at who I've become attracted to. Yes, there are men with receding hairlines that I have found very attractive in recent years. I never would've guessed that would happen! (although I did always find myself more attracted to eyes and smiles than anything else).
I also think we end up with more deal breakers over time, but they change as we learn from experience.
Perfect guy for me.. this guy that keeps showing up in my dreams. I'm waiting for the day I actually meet him in person!
But seriously. I'm getting to a point where I really like being alone. I can't imagine having to share a closet with someone else. I want to sit where I want and be in charge of the remote all the time. I don't want to work around someone else. The longer I'm single, the worse it gets.. more set in my ways. So now? I think a long term, every other weekend relationship sounds perfect. I'll see him more when the kids are grown and moved out. He can even move into the house next door to me, but please don't make me do his laundry.
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