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Old 04-30-2008, 05:45 AM
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Mine are very high...finding someone with an education, career, no kids, faith(moral values), with no drama is hard to find...yet I am willing to try and date men of other races since my expectations are so high. But finding "Something New" is often times socially unacceptable.
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Old 04-30-2008, 09:29 AM
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I have a girl, but I haven't been the most faithful dude though. I'm not married to her, so I think it's good to get it all out now, rather than to do it when I tie the knot. My standards are medium I guess. I'm not looking for perfection. I'm not perfect so how would that look with me trying to get a perfect woman?
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Old 04-30-2008, 12:41 PM
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Mine are very high...finding someone with an education, career, no kids, faith(moral values), with no drama is hard to find...yet I am willing to try and date men of other races since my expectations are so high. But finding "Something New" is often times socially unacceptable.
Why is that socially unacceptable?

I'm not sure what you mean by finding "Something New" but if finding "Something New" is acceptable to you, wouldn't that be what's important? Who cares what other people think?
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Old 04-30-2008, 06:46 PM
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Why is that socially unacceptable?

I'm not sure what you mean by finding "Something New" but if finding "Something New" is acceptable to you, wouldn't that be what's important? Who cares what other people think?
She may not think that it socially unacceptable, but on the other side it may be a different story. You would be surprised to know how many people think it is unacceptable to mess with people of different races.
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Old 05-01-2008, 07:48 AM
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She may not think that it socially unacceptable, but on the other side it may be a different story. You would be surprised to know how many people think it is unacceptable to mess with people of different races.
Dionysus, this is the problem. The fact that I'm not surprised is what's sad. She brought up that it's socially unacceptable. I mean, if she doesn't care if it's socially unacceptable, then why even bring it up?

I totally agree with KSUViolet. Why should anyone let an outsider determine who they should or shouldn't be with? Why should race even matter? The mumbling, the eye rolling and lip smacking.....ya know.....Whatever!

That's SO stupid to me!
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Old 04-30-2008, 09:53 PM
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I don't find anything wrong with dating outside of my race and have done it before. If someone has the things I look for in a mate, I could care less what race they are. If someone doesn't like it they can kick rocks.
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Old 04-30-2008, 10:52 PM
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I don't find anything wrong with dating outside of my race and have done it before. If someone has the things I look for in a mate, I could care less what race they are. If someone doesn't like it they can kick rocks.
I agree. As long as she's fine (has nice legs and pretty feet), has good morals, respects herself and treats me right, then we're good to go.

LMAO @ they can kick rocks. LOL LOL LOL.
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Old 05-01-2008, 06:57 PM
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I don't find anything wrong with dating outside of my race and have done it before. If someone has the things I look for in a mate, I could care less what race they are. If someone doesn't like it they can kick rocks.
That's cool and all that you don't mind interacial relationships, but expect you and ol' girl to have some mad drama.
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Old 04-30-2008, 06:25 PM
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Mine are very high...finding someone with an education, career, no kids, faith(moral values), with no drama is hard to find...yet I am willing to try and date men of other races since my expectations are so high. But finding "Something New" is often times socially unacceptable.
Good luck. But you ain't gonna find a dude like that.
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Old 04-30-2008, 06:41 PM
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Good luck. But you ain't gonna find a dude like that.
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Old 04-30-2008, 09:55 PM
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Old 05-01-2008, 06:28 PM
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Loooowered Expectaaaaationsssss.....
How is that? All I said was she ain't gonna find a dude like the one she wants. She said no drama. What dude has no drama? I have a kid, and if she doesn't want the dude to have kids that's one thing, but a dude with no drama? She's dreamin'.
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Old 05-01-2008, 06:30 PM
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How is that? All I said was she ain't gonna find a dude like the one she wants. She said no drama. What dude has no drama? I have a kid, and if she doesn't want the dude to have kids that's one thing, but a dude with no drama? She's dreamin'.
There are men and women with no drama. You might not able to relate to that but that sucks FOR YOU.

Shave some excess fat off of your life so that you can do better.
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Old 05-01-2008, 06:35 PM
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There are men and women with no drama. You might not able to relate to that but that sucks FOR YOU.

Shave some excess fat off of your life so that you can do better.
Everyone has drama. I think her problem is she's not lookin' at the common denominator in her bad relationships with these dudes. The common denominator could be her. But everyone has drama. You're pretty naive if you don't think so.
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Old 05-01-2008, 06:40 PM
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You're pretty naive if you don't think so.
You're pretty troubled and dramatic if you think that living life requires drama.
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