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02-05-2008, 01:00 PM
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Mine are (or were - I'm married) very high. That might seem unrealistic, and it's true I didn't date a lot, but I would much rather be alone than waste time on someone who isn't perfect for me. I liked being single and the freedom that came with it, had lots of guy friends, and didn't spend a lot of time on broken hearts. Everyone has flaws, but why settle for less than the best?
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02-05-2008, 01:27 PM
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Currenty...how about No standards? What I wouldn't do for some female company to offset being around soldiers all day everyday...
When not surrounded by dudes all the time, I'd set my dating standards as high. Just hooking up...well, I'm don't discriminate as much then. To date a girl though, I don't expect her to be perfect but if I'm not attracted to her, find her interesting, and tolerate any quirks she may have...why bother?
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02-05-2008, 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Fleur de Lis
Mine are (or were - I'm married) very high. That might seem unrealistic, and it's true I didn't date a lot, but I would much rather be alone than waste time on someone who isn't perfect for me. I liked being single and the freedom that came with it, had lots of guy friends, and didn't spend a lot of time on broken hearts. Everyone has flaws, but why settle for less than the best?
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04-30-2008, 05:45 AM
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Mine are very high...finding someone with an education, career, no kids, faith(moral values), with no drama is hard to find...yet I am willing to try and date men of other races since my expectations are so high. But finding "Something New" is often times socially unacceptable.
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04-30-2008, 09:29 AM
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I have a girl, but I haven't been the most faithful dude though. I'm not married to her, so I think it's good to get it all out now, rather than to do it when I tie the knot. My standards are medium I guess. I'm not looking for perfection. I'm not perfect so how would that look with me trying to get a perfect woman?
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04-30-2008, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by immAKAlate
Mine are very high...finding someone with an education, career, no kids, faith(moral values), with no drama is hard to find...yet I am willing to try and date men of other races since my expectations are so high. But finding "Something New" is often times socially unacceptable.
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Why is that socially unacceptable? 
I'm not sure what you mean by finding "Something New" but if finding "Something New" is acceptable to you, wouldn't that be what's important? Who cares what other people think?
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04-30-2008, 06:46 PM
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Why is that socially unacceptable?
I'm not sure what you mean by finding "Something New" but if finding "Something New" is acceptable to you, wouldn't that be what's important? Who cares what other people think? |
She may not think that it socially unacceptable, but on the other side it may be a different story. You would be surprised to know how many people think it is unacceptable to mess with people of different races.
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05-01-2008, 07:48 AM
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She may not think that it socially unacceptable, but on the other side it may be a different story. You would be surprised to know how many people think it is unacceptable to mess with people of different races.
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Dionysus, this is the problem. The fact that I'm not surprised is what's sad. She brought up that it's socially unacceptable. I mean, if she doesn't care if it's socially unacceptable, then why even bring it up?
I totally agree with KSUViolet. Why should anyone let an outsider determine who they should or shouldn't be with? Why should race even matter? The mumbling, the eye rolling and lip smacking.....ya know.....Whatever! 
That's SO stupid to me!
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04-30-2008, 09:53 PM
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I don't find anything wrong with dating outside of my race and have done it before. If someone has the things I look for in a mate, I could care less what race they are. If someone doesn't like it they can kick rocks.
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04-30-2008, 10:52 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
I don't find anything wrong with dating outside of my race and have done it before. If someone has the things I look for in a mate, I could care less what race they are. If someone doesn't like it they can kick rocks.
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I agree. As long as she's fine (has nice legs and pretty feet) , has good morals, respects herself and treats me right, then we're good to go.
LMAO @ they can kick rocks. LOL LOL LOL.
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05-01-2008, 06:57 PM
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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
I don't find anything wrong with dating outside of my race and have done it before. If someone has the things I look for in a mate, I could care less what race they are. If someone doesn't like it they can kick rocks.
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That's cool and all that you don't mind interacial relationships, but expect you and ol' girl to have some mad drama.
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04-30-2008, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by immAKAlate
Mine are very high...finding someone with an education, career, no kids, faith(moral values), with no drama is hard to find...yet I am willing to try and date men of other races since my expectations are so high. But finding "Something New" is often times socially unacceptable.
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Good luck. But you ain't gonna find a dude like that.
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04-30-2008, 06:41 PM
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Good luck. But you ain't gonna find a dude like that.
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Loooowered Expectaaaaationsssss.....
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04-30-2008, 09:55 PM
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Loooowered Expectaaaaationsssss.....
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05-01-2008, 06:28 PM
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Loooowered Expectaaaaationsssss.....
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How is that? All I said was she ain't gonna find a dude like the one she wants. She said no drama. What dude has no drama? I have a kid, and if she doesn't want the dude to have kids that's one thing, but a dude with no drama? She's dreamin'.
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