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Old 11-26-2007, 07:04 PM
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1. the girls dont really want to come to the fraternity parties but have to in order to get their points which sucks b/c the mentality isnt there

2. i was so excited about going on dates w/ girls to football games...but i realized soon it didnt even mean anything. alot of the girls had bf's anyway...so its like why are u goin on a date to the fball game w/ me? that was truly dissapointing

3. swaps are fun, but once again many of the girls HAVE to go and dont seem to really wanna take it further i.e goin out to dinner and a move later etc..
If these girls don't want to go to parties with you (you and the other fraternities you), I'm sorry, but there must be something wrong with you.

I know mixers/swaps are alcohol free now and not as fun as they used to be, but they're the same way everywhere, and I don't see guys from every school complaining that the girls are just "meh" about them.
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:15 PM
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no no! its not like they dont wanna come with me...

they just wanna come to fill up their points

im not saying they're like "oh sams weird i dont wanna go with him"

its more like "ugh im so tired i dont wanna go to the party tonite but i have to b/c i need my points"


so it just kinda ruins the mood
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:16 PM
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1. the girls dont really want to come to the fraternity parties but have to in order to get their points which sucks b/c the mentality isnt there

2. i was so excited about going on dates w/ girls to football games...but i realized soon it didnt even mean anything. alot of the girls had bf's anyway...so its like why are u goin on a date to the fball game w/ me? that was truly dissapointing

3. swaps are fun, but once again many of the girls HAVE to go and dont seem to really wanna take it further i.e goin out to dinner and a move later etc..
if shorties dont want to go the frat parties, that must mean ya'll shits suck yo, or ya'll some cornball ass dudes...REAL TALK!!!

and why would a chick go on a date if they have a man already? that dont make any type of sense...

and if they dont want to go out with you again, that must say something about YOU...maybe they think you're wack, or just not their type, or maybe ya breath stinks...i'm just sayin...
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Old 11-26-2007, 07:23 PM
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Old 11-26-2007, 09:20 PM
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well, i guess ya'll are right.

i mean we are young....18, 19, 20



even though the girls are prudes....its the right thing to do...after all, the
Bible says to stay celibate until we're married


not tryin to sound arrogant, but i modeled for Ford Models in NYC when i lived there lol...but im no clooney lol
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Old 11-26-2007, 10:28 PM
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i modeled for Ford Models in NYC when i lived there
Well, that's your problem, son. Those sweet Bama Belles don't always cotton to yankees.
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Old 11-26-2007, 11:49 PM
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im from alabama actually
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Old 11-26-2007, 11:50 PM
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:13 AM
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well, i guess ya'll are right.

i mean we are young....18, 19, 20



even though the girls are prudes....its the right thing to do...after all, the
Bible says to stay celibate until we're married


not tryin to sound arrogant, but i modeled for Ford Models in NYC when i lived there lol...but im no clooney lol
Let's see some pictures.
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:25 AM
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i'd rather just blend in and keep my opinion/voice anonymous b/c then if u see me on campus that'd suck
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:31 AM
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well, i guess ya'll are right.

i mean we are young....18, 19, 20



even though the girls are prudes....its the right thing to do...after all, the
Bible says to stay celibate until we're married


not tryin to sound arrogant, but i modeled for Ford Models in NYC when i lived there lol...but im no clooney lol
Umm on behalf of people from Alabama I'm going to have to say that the girls are not prudes...they just aren't your everyday whore that you are looking for.
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:40 AM
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Umm on behalf of people from Alabama I'm going to have to say that the girls are not prudes...they just aren't your everyday whore that you are looking for.
And that's it in a nutshell.

Hooking up is different from dating and making someone your girlfriend. In fact, most girls eventually learn that the surest way to NOT make a guy your boyfriend is to hook up with him. And sororities don't like to be known as the "slut" house; my friend's alma mater has a saying about the sororities on campus: (GLOs remain anonymous) "F*#$ a ABC, date a DEF, marry a XYZ." No one wants to be that used, or to be labeled as a "slut" through association.
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Old 11-28-2007, 12:15 AM
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so who wants to explain the points thing?
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Old 11-28-2007, 12:48 AM
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so who wants to explain the points thing?
A lot of NPC sororities use a point system to ensure attendance at events and require a certain amount of points a semester - like a mixer with AKL is 10 pts, Homecoming pageant is 5 pts, etc. Here's some other threads:

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...t=point+system
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...t=point+system
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Old 11-28-2007, 02:42 AM
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i just want to take a minute to thank everyone who replied to this post.

it has helped me better understand the university of alabama.


now that we've clarified some things it has made me a much happier person I.E.

1. if u go the game with a girl...and nothing comes of it...its not personal she just needed her points and u just had to have a date anyway. also she might have a boyfriend

2. if u meet a girl at a mixer and she's not really feeling u....well she might have a bf and might actually be dead tired but has to come to get the points

3. we hold respect, pride, tradition, and values here at the univ of alabama and we stand above all the other universities where the girls compromise their morals for a little fun. our girls are classy.


rolllllllllll tiiiiidddeeee roooolllll!


thanks again!
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