Anyone from the University of ALABAMA!!!???

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally Posted by samjones

1. the girls dont really want to come to the fraternity parties but have to in order to get their points which sucks b/c the mentality isnt there

2. i was so excited about going on dates w/ girls to football games...but i realized soon it didnt even mean anything. alot of the girls had bf's anyway...so its like why are u goin on a date to the fball game w/ me? that was truly dissapointing

3. swaps are fun, but once again many of the girls HAVE to go and dont seem to really wanna take it further i.e goin out to dinner and a move later etc..

I could be wrong but maybe it's you.......I usually only go on dates with guys I'm actually interested in.

[Benzgirl]

Originally Posted by SmartBlondeGPhB

I could be wrong but maybe it's you.......I usually only go on dates with guys I'm actually interested in.

No one every guaranteed that Joining a Fraternity = Lots of Dates = Partying with the Sorority Girls = Getting Laid

Just from reading your posts, I wouldn't be interested even if you looked like Clooney.

[nittanyalum]

Originally Posted by Benzgirl

I wouldn't be interested even if you looked like Clooney.

Well, come on now, let's not get crazy...

j/k

[Benzgirl]

Originally Posted by nittanyalum

Well, come on now, let's not get crazy...

j/k

Well......maybe Clooney

[PhrozenGod01]

To help answer your original question, it would behoove you to get involved with other campus outlets other than Greek life. The Greek presence at Bama is huge, but there are other women out there who you could meet somewhere else on campus. In no way are you compromising your fraternal pride, but you could probably meet a gorgeous young woman who will stay over late because she doesn't feel like following the "rules".

It's no guarantee that you'll hook up (whatever your definition of that is), but there is a better chance that you'll have someone who will stop by your house to see you, and not be seen.