To help answer your original question, it would behoove you to get involved with other campus outlets other than Greek life. The Greek presence at Bama is huge, but there are other women out there who you could meet somewhere else on campus. In no way are you compromising your fraternal pride, but you could probably meet a gorgeous young woman who will stay over late because she doesn't feel like following the "rules".
It's no guarantee that you'll hook up (whatever your definition of that is), but there is a better chance that you'll have someone who will stop by your house to see you, and not be seen.
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