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Originally Posted by gem_star17
edit: now that i think about it, maybe this is why i am unpopular with his house. maybe this whole time they always suspected i secretly felt this way. but nope, i refuse to ever be friends with them, not after the hell they put me through. ESPECIALLY because they tried to take him away from me. the only one i am friendly with in the fraternity is his younger brother.
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Did you feel this way from the beginning of your relationship? I mean, did you ever
try hanging out with his brothers and letting them get to know you? Or did you from the beginning say "these guys are jerks, I hate hanging out at the house, the Delta Chis are so much nicer than these guys, I want you all to myself"?
Also you've expressed that you don't like the girls that hang out there. I don't know if you mean girlfriends or who, but the fact is that if you show disdain towards women that the brothers like, it'll be very offensive to them.
I don't think they would be so antagonistic toward you if it was just a matter of you not being a "party" type person. I've known lots of fraternity guys w/ girlfriends like that and they were accepted just fine.
It also sounds like your boyfriend blames everything on you when he's talking to his brothers - that is, even if he would rather have a quiet night hanging out with just you instead of whooping it up at the house, he's like "oh, gem_star is bitching about having couple time, sorry guys." He needs to grow a pair and tell them that just because he's with you doesn't mean he doesn't have loyalty to them too.
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