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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06
It's not the best idea, but I would never tell someone not to. My only advice is that they think really hard about how they feel about both groups. My rule of thumb is if you know that you'd rather not be Greek at all than take a bid to your second choice, then you should ISP ("suicide").
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This is more along the lines of what I meant by advocating SIP, not so that everyone should do it. But those who can not see beyond it. When it comes to recruitment there are so many girls who have no idea what they are getting into (at least at my school) no matter how hard you try to explain mutual selection, "open mind/open heart", "sisterhood is in every chapter" it is just not going to work out if they can't see beyond that and they can end up dropping like flies during new member period from all groups costing big sisters money and wasting so much effort that could be better placed no matter how much you coddle and baby them.
If someone believes in the deepest depths of their heart that it's ABC or DEATH then they should probably go with that cos there is nothing anybody but ABC can do for you after that if that's how you are going to look at it. I personally didn't do it because I knew I could be happy anywhere, but not everyone can. I hope I didn't come off as rude or whatever, but these girls are out there and I just want to better explain my point. And that is why I feel that SIP may not always be a bad option.
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