
09-21-2007, 06:40 PM
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Since we're on the subject, I posted a recruitment thread for my friend last fall. She attended Preference at two groups, but "suicided" one of them. She got lucky and ended up getting a bid.
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/sh...ad.php?t=80889
In my friend's case, she knew that there were other girls who liked her #2 pref alot more than she did, and she wouldn't want to get a bid there and be upset while someone else who REALLY wanted them ended up somewhere else. She didn't think it was fair to them.
It's not the best idea, but I would never tell someone not to. My only advice is that they think really hard about how they feel about both groups. My rule of thumb is if you know that you'd rather not be Greek at all than take a bid to your second choice, then you should ISP ("suicide").
I've seen it happen on GC where girls have a full schedule of prefs, choose to suicide, don't get a bid, and then cry about how badly they want to be Greek. Sorry, but if you really wanted to be Greek you should've ranked all of your choices.
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