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Old 08-12-2007, 03:26 PM
OmegaPDPrez OmegaPDPrez is offline
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How long should i wait?

Ok, so say i wait. But how long should i wait for him to make the first move. I've never been with a shy man before so i dont know how they work. I think i will take it slow with him just so i wont drive him away from moving to fast. But i was afraid that if i didnt do something first he might feel that im not into him. So i am very confused. For now, i will wait for him. I'll give it another month, and then im making a move. I'd like some affection!!! << Virgo921, its not about sex, its about really feeling like he likes to be with me. Even if he justs holds my hand. but i think he should want to kiss me at some point!
Has anyone else ever been with someone like this?
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Old 08-13-2007, 10:08 AM
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I hear ya

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Ok, so say i wait. But how long should i wait for him to make the first move. I've never been with a shy man before so i dont know how they work. I think i will take it slow with him just so i wont drive him away from moving to fast. But i was afraid that if i didnt do something first he might feel that im not into him. So i am very confused. For now, i will wait for him. I'll give it another month, and then im making a move. I'd like some affection!!! << Virgo921, its not about sex, its about really feeling like he likes to be with me. Even if he justs holds my hand. but i think he should want to kiss me at some point!
Has anyone else ever been with someone like this?
But you've known this guy for some time so, what has he shown you in the past from other relationships he's been in?

Since it's not a physical relationship now, the fact that he is spending time with you says he likes being with you. He puts his arm around you and holds you closer. Isn't that affection?

I've been with shy men before and I've pushed the issue and in hindsight, it could have waited.

If you want a kiss, then kiss him.
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