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07-31-2007, 04:15 PM
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Originally Posted by AlphaGamUGAAlum
The saddest thing to me would be a legacy who felt that she let her mom or sister down by being cut from the group.
It really is important not to put that pressure on the PNMs since so little of it is in their control.
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Yeah, wait to put pressure on them after they get invited to your pref party!
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07-31-2007, 04:03 PM
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ETA: All this legacy talk has reinforced within in me that if I ever have a daughter considering sorority recruitment where this a chapter of ADPi, even my own alma mater, I will be sure to lay out to her that I'd be delighted if she and ADPi find a connection with one another, but I want her go into recruitment with the same open mind I was allowed to have. And to make the decisions that benefit her.
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Me too. The ladybug PJs, toothbrush, shoes, hairbows, dresses and toys that my daughter have are all just coincidence.
No, I really will hope she joins where she's happy. Since we're here in NC, unless she decides to go far from home, or ASA suddenly has a sudden urge to move south, she probably won't have an ASA chapter at her university, anyway.
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07-31-2007, 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
Since we're here in NC, unless she decides to go far from home, or ASA suddenly has a sudden urge to move south, she probably won't have an ASA chapter at her university, anyway.
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Heyyy, you never know, kiddies frequently decide to head far away from home for college -be careful what you wish for!
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06-13-2014, 12:27 PM
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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
Me too. The ladybug PJs, toothbrush, shoes, hairbows, dresses and toys that my daughter have are all just coincidence.
No, I really will hope she joins where she's happy. Since we're here in NC, unless she decides to go far from home, or ASA suddenly has a sudden urge to move south, she probably won't have an ASA chapter at her university, anyway.
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Beetlejuice!
And I agree carnation, there was great discussion here. I'm glad I started it !!
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