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Wow. This is what happens when people don't tell one another where they stand in the beginning of relationships and are honest about it.
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Totally agree.
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07-19-2007, 01:03 PM
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It's interesting that the people responding to this thread have been majority christian. Is there anyone who (besides me) is not Christian that has an opinion? It just seems very one sided..or not hetrosexual? Some other viewpoint would be interesting.
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07-19-2007, 09:12 PM
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It's interesting that the people responding to this thread have been majority christian. Is there anyone who (besides me) is not Christian that has an opinion? It just seems very one sided..or not hetrosexual? Some other viewpoint would be interesting.
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I'm not a Christian, and I sort-of threw my two cents in.
Overall this thread has been very interesting...
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07-20-2007, 09:50 AM
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It's interesting that the people responding to this thread have been majority christian. Is there anyone who (besides me) is not Christian that has an opinion? It just seems very one sided..or not hetrosexual? Some other viewpoint would be interesting.
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I'm not Christian. I don't have a problem with the philosophy of a man leading, but I do feel he needs to earn that. I would have to trust him to allow him to do so.
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07-20-2007, 10:19 AM
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As far as the original post goes, I don't think it's limited to just men...I know a few women who have the mindset of "getting what they can get" from men. It's a dangerous game to play though...karma is nothing to play with!! (I've seen it in action...lol)
As far as the biblical discussion goes...I'm not sure if people really understand the "submitting" issue. I don't know if it is a lack of teaching...or a lack of truly understanding what the concept means. I think both parties should really be honest with each other in the beginning and discuss the tough issues before walking down the aisle. (Preferable in pre-marital counseling..lol)
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07-20-2007, 12:18 PM
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The issues are too thick in here. I can't breathe!!!!!
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07-20-2007, 06:47 PM
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The issues are too thick in here. I can't breathe!!!!!
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Man, I try not to post (for fear of persecution), but I can't help reading this stuff...this is internet CRACK!
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07-20-2007, 08:22 PM
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Man, I try not to post (for fear of persecution), but I can't help reading this stuff...this is internet CRACK!
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I soooo agree! Especially the Christian sorority thread.
Hope you have not been beating up little kids lately!
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07-21-2007, 12:45 AM
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Man, I try not to post (for fear of persecution), but I can't help reading this stuff...this is internet CRACK!
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LMAO
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07-21-2007, 12:44 AM
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As far as the original post goes, I don't think it's limited to just men...I know a few women who have the mindset of "getting what they can get" from men. It's a dangerous game to play though...karma is nothing to play with!! (I've seen it in action...lol)
As far as the biblical discussion goes...I'm not sure if people really understand the "submitting" issue. I don't know if it is a lack of teaching...or a lack of truly understanding what the concept means. I think both parties should really be honest with each other in the beginning and discuss the tough issues before walking down the aisle. (Preferable in pre-marital counseling..lol)
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C'mon now. You know in this day in age a joker won't be honest with the next joker. Lies have to be told and games have to be played 1st, then they can attempt marriage. Keep dreamin' though.
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C'mon now. You know in this day in age a joker won't be honest with the next joker. Lies have to be told and games have to be played 1st, then they can attempt marriage. Keep dreamin' though.
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Can't a girl dream sometimes..lol...
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07-23-2007, 11:30 PM
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LOL. The way these trifling jokers like doing things in this day and age, you pretty much have to.
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07-25-2007, 03:06 PM
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Hey now, you brought it up I will say this has been a very interesting discussion.
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As far as the biblical discussion goes...I'm not sure if people really understand the "submitting" issue. I don't know if it is a lack of teaching...or a lack of truly understanding what the concept means.
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Hmm, well, I base my opinion on the different things I've learned through research over the years and I grew up in a christian household and church.
My idea of "submitting" comes from the same teachings. I understand what you're getting at though.
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07-20-2007, 10:03 AM
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It's interesting that the people responding to this thread have been majority christian. Is there anyone who (besides me) is not Christian that has an opinion? It just seems very one sided..or not hetrosexual? Some other viewpoint would be interesting.
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I am a christian, however I believe a lot of things that some other christians may not agree with me about. For example, I think that same sex marriages should be allowed. See, if christians believed that they should not judge people they wouldn't go out making people's lives miserable. Just my opinion. Either hate it or agree with it, but I own it.
BTW: Some women need to hold on to their standards. There is not ONE woman who can tell me that she didn't hear the bells and whistles going off when she suspected her man was not going to do right. We all have ignored that gut feeling.
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