Discretion

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by icebrAKA

Duh, we're gonna react the same way!

Not necessarily.

Originally Posted by icebrAKA

At this point I'm steamed because if I wanted the board to know that I was on another board, let along the name of the board, I would have done so.

Starting this thread is bringing more attention to something that could've just been ignored.

Originally Posted by icebrAKA

I just want to know why not send me a private message?

She doesn't owe you anything.

Originally Posted by icebrAKA

People............please use discretion when asking people questions when it comes to being on multiple boards.

Huh?

Whatever the case, you probably could've just offered this advice without discussing the specific incident.

[icebrAKA]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Not necessarily.



Starting this thread is bringing more attention to something that could've just been ignored.




She doesn't owe you anything.



Huh?

Whatever the case, you probably could've just offered this advice without discussing the specific incident.

No problem ........chaos.......you are entitled to your opinion.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by icebrAKA

you are entitled to your opinion.

That doesn't need announcing, either.

[icebrAKA]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

That doesn't need announcing, either.

<-----Right back at cha'!

[Little32]

Like Soror Redefined, I am wondering who this young lady is that is potentially ruining her quest with such indiscrete actions on a messageboard. We all know how small the greek world is.

I think that this is a good discretionary caution, because aspirants never know who they are talking to, whether that person is on another messageboard, or whether, through a series of indiscretions, they are revealing exactly who they are and what they are about.

[AKA_Monet]

Soror Ice-

So what, you use the same handle. A lot of people do, who can remember all their own handles? Better yet, all the line names given to me--that's another story

You have to suck this one up as an experience with a harried interest. Interests that broadcast their intentions publically are a nuisance and an eyesore.

When you encounter them, you have to "deal" with them appropriately. Usually in the manner of knowing what your documents say. How are they going to argue our CB and MOSP's? Really? When I say stating them, I mean, Article III, Section 12, New Membership Undergraduate, clearly states, etc...

Moreover, you have to ALWAYS display what is becoming of an Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. woman. ALWAYS. Your "Net presence" is "nettiquitte". Protocol is always in effect.

I would let her lie on the other board. Eventually she will tire herself out. And I would like to know who she is and where the board is because if she enjoys confrontation, she will be dealing with a nearly 20 year senior member who actually has dined with the several Supremes at the house...