Discretion

Tillennium01 · #1 12-27-1999, 10:24 PM

Hi to all!

I'm a high school student thats interested in Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc. I would like for the present members to clarify some things for me.

~What are some things that shouldnt be asked about Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc by a prospective?~

I know this is where the terminology "discreet" come in. I am curious because present members get agitated when prospectives ask them questions thats inappropriate to ask. I would like to know what areas not to touch and questions not to ask. I dont want to get my feelings hurt, so this is y I'm posting this topic.

After this question is answered, I shall proceed.

Tillennium01

pink bunny · #2 01-03-2000, 02:19 PM

I think history questions with regard to the sorority are out of the question you should do your own research and what you can't find or don't know is not for you to know. If there is no obvious signs or posters with respect too upcoming events etc. then i would inquire about programs you can attend. I would focus on just being friendly and support them at their functions. Good luck.

Tillennium01 · #3 01-03-2000, 04:34 PM

Thanx for the good luck, pink bunny! I'm pretty sure I'll need it. One thing though, u didnt answer my question. Was this post as a whole inappropriate? Or something u didnt wanna touch?

Tillennium01

AKAtude · #4 01-04-2000, 03:58 PM

Considering that you are still in high school, it is confusing to know what is appropriate and what is not. Once you get to college, you will find out rather quickly that it is best not to ask any questions....
period. Until then, enjoy your time in high school and concentrate on your academics and getting into college.

pink bunny · #5 01-05-2000, 01:15 AM

Tillennium01 i answered your question. Reread my post. In simplest terms: DON'T ASK HISTORY QUESTIONS. DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH. ASK ABOUT UPCOMING EVENTS. SUPPORT THEIR PROJECTS. BE FRIENDLY. GOOD LUCK.

Fred Hatchett · #6 01-07-2000, 01:31 AM

Tillenium 01! Consider your ways. If they have to keep secrets, what are they hiding. You are entitled to know al the facts, secrets included. If you are a Christian, my advice is to leave the Greek system alone.

Kat · #7 01-07-2000, 02:29 AM

Tillenium 01! You can have them both. I am proud to say that I am a Sister in Christ and a Sister of Alpha Kappa Alpha.

pink bunny · #8 01-07-2000, 03:39 PM

Kat is right you can be greek and christian.
Before i went to the AKA interest meeting i spoke with christian sorors both AKA and Delta, as well as the leaders in my church to get advice and they supported me 100%. Our sorority was founded with christian morals in mind and high ethical standards first for our self then for mankind because you can't help others until you help yourself. Fred is just BITTER.

ivy envy · #9 01-10-2000, 02:44 PM

I first want to tell my sorors, THANK YOU, for once again handling a potentially "bad" reply.

If any intellgent person has done any research on our Sorority, they would know that we take pride in the fact that we provide "Service to Mankind"!!! As a matter of fact, we don't descriminate against anyone that we may provdide our services to.

If you are asking how this is related to living for Christ, being of service to others is a prime example of one of the ways God would want us to live, as brothers and sisters in Christ.

I am proud to be a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha, and especially a part of the family of Christ.

Skee-Wee and God Bless

Elite Ivy · #10 01-12-2000, 11:03 PM

Hi Tillennium01,
I don't normally post messages on the board. As a matter of fact this is my first time. Hi sorors!

After reading one of the comments, I felt as if it was time for me to post a message. I am an AKA and I am also a young lady who loves the Lord with all of my heart, mind, soul, and strength. I am very involved in my sorority chapter(I serve as the secretary) at my school AND I am still involved in my church. I was a Christian before I was an AKA and I know that my relationship with God only helps to strengthen the bond with many of my sorors. As a matter of fact, very seldom do I allow AKA to interfere with my church activities. I understand that being an AKA won't get me into the Kingdom, but in "serving mankind" am I not "serving as my brother's keeper."

My mother has been an AKA for well of 25 years and she taught me that GOD is first and then all other things will fall into place. Since you are still in high school, and know that you are interested in the "premier sorority," I would encourage you to become acquainted with an AKA in your hometown if that is possible. Check to make sure if you have teachers or ladies in your CHURCH who are members. If so, they can help guide you into the world of Pink and Green. Take the time to do a lot of independent research about the sorority. When you go off to college follow the advice that has already be given to you and remember that we are AKAdemically inclined women. Always remember: Seek ye first, the kingdom of GOD, and HIS righteous and all these things shall be added unto you. Good luck and you can e-mail me if you would like to talk further. Please forgive me for the long post.

[This message has been edited by Elite Ivy (edited January 12, 2000).]

AKAtude · #11 01-13-2000, 10:16 AM

Elite Ivy,

That was well put. Thank you for posting.

LadyAKA · #12 01-13-2000, 12:58 PM

Soror Elite Ivy, preach sister - PREACH!
Amen is all I have to say! I was born and raised in the church. AKA as a matter of fact is third in my life, the first is my love for the lord and his son.
Sorors stand strong! Out with the bad in with the good. Tillennium01, I am sure you will see the light and make the tight choice!

Tillennium01 · #13 01-13-2000, 05:09 PM

I would like to thank all the Ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc for responding.

I am involved in a teenage program that Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc sponsors for high school teenagers. This is my first yr being involved in it. So far I am loving it! I've been doing my research on Alpha Kappa Alpha for over 2 yrs now. I have gathered information up on my computer that I am planning to print out and learn.

I would be off to college in no time! I am taking in all the information I am receiving now! I'm sure it'll pay off in the long run. Again, thanks to all!

BTW, I ignore people like Fred! ;-)

Tillennium01

LadyAKA · #14 01-14-2000, 01:00 AM

That should be right choice

Fred Hatchett · #15 01-15-2000, 04:34 PM

Very religious elite ivy. What about all those sisters who serve other gods. They are your sisters, and that makes you unequally yoked. You can't knowingly disobey God's commandment and enter in His kingdom. You can't separate from those sisters unless you denounce. Do as you choose. I am just sowing and/or watering seeds. That is more powerful than putting a gun to someone's head. I could care less about AKA. My concern is for the souls in them. As for you Tillenium01, You can't ignore the Word of God. Everything you see or hear goes into your spirit. The battle is not about AKA. It's about the souls in them.

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