Sorority in crisis, please help!!

33girl · #1 06-28-2007, 02:21 PM

alum - I can totally understand someone preferring to live in one of the sorority houses at your alma mater, rather than trying to look for an apartment and landlord who would be decent. That can be scary in a teeny college town let alone Squill/Oakland. I'm sure there were also parents who preferred that option immensely!

adpiucf - it depends on the size of your house - if you either 1) have a large enough space for rituals & such that's apart from the rest of the house (like a basement) or 2) have a teeny house and really don't have rituals or meetings there, it's not as bad as it sounds.

If you ever do get stuck and have to take in boarders, try to get grad students or seniors who have no interest in pledging whatsoever and just need a place to lay their heads. If you take in underclassmen who might want to be Greek, it can get dicey.

alum · #2 06-28-2007, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

alum - I can totally understand someone preferring to live in one of the sorority houses at your alma mater, rather than trying to look for an apartment and landlord who would be decent. That can be scary in a teeny college town let alone Squill/Oakland. I'm sure there were also parents who preferred that option immensely!

But CMU Housing has more than enough for undergrads with no social restrictions as the sorority houses had. Housing had a lottery:rising srs picked rooms the first night, jrs the 2nd, sophs the 3rd.

I liked being in a dorm but wouldn't have minded parts of Squirrel Hill. After all, a lot of our professors and students came from there. Oakland and Shadyside? Not so sure.

33girl · #3 06-28-2007, 03:14 PM

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Originally Posted by alum

But CMU Housing has more than enough for undergrads with no social restrictions as the sorority houses had. Housing had a lottery:rising srs picked rooms the first night, jrs the 2nd, sophs the 3rd.

I liked being in a dorm but wouldn't have minded parts of Squirrel Hill. After all, a lot of our professors and students came from there. Oakland and Shadyside? Not so sure.

Ah OK. I'm not saying Squill itself is scary, rather the prospect of being from Pigsknuckle PA and trying to find an apartment is.

adpiucf · #4 06-28-2007, 03:31 PM

Is Pigsknuckle a real place? I know there are a few cities in PA with weird names... LOL.

33girl · #5 06-28-2007, 03:32 PM

No, Pigsknuckle is a reference from Animal House. We do however have Slippery Rock, Scalp Level and Blue Ball.

adpiucf · #6 06-28-2007, 03:34 PM

Ah thank you! LOL

And let's not forget Intercourse, PA.

I lived in Philly through elementary school. I remember the map of PA hanging in the classroom... I don't think all those town founders had intended for those names to sound as silly as we find them today.... but they do make for a good laugh.

AlphaFrog · #7 06-28-2007, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by 33girl

Slippery Rock

SLIMEY PEBBLE!!!

*Ghost GLO*

Sorry, I'm done.

Kevin · #8 06-28-2007, 03:50 PM

Knowing nothing about how sororities work...

Is the OP a member of the chapter?

If so, why isn't the house corporation doing their job? This is not a problem that the active chapter should be facing alone. They're simply not equipped.

The house corp needs to come in and tell 'em how it's going to be... or they can sell the house. This has got to be a problem with some older chapters where the members of the house corp no longer have a personal financial stake in whether or not the house gets foreclosed on. If these folks don't want to do their jobs, perhaps it's time for your HQ to have a come to Jesus with your alumnae?

Tom Earp · #9 06-28-2007, 03:54 PM

Seems the O P is not interested any longer.

Maybe she doesn't care?

It is still of interest for all of us who own House Buildings.

SnowLady · #10 07-11-2007, 03:16 PM

... we could hijack this thread and just talk about fun PA city names including:

Beaver Falls, Mars, Zelienople lol

But back to the subject:

You definately need bylaws that have live-in requirements. The colleges that I attended required the officers to live-in. You don't live in, you lose your office. And since it's a standard to fill the house, those that aren't living in (or have not filled in the live-in requirement) are put on probation.

We used a point system. Each member recieved a point for holding office, living in, their year in college - some other things that escape me now. So after the officers signed their lease if there were rooms left over, we went to the points. Lower the points, more than likely that you'll live in.

I feel your pain of filling the house. I've been on that fence as a collegian and as an alumnae advisor.