Would you date a guy that was not in a fraternity?

[REE1993]

I think what also happens is that people are more likely to date within a smaller community (i.e. the Greek system) than outside of it. The same goes for people who are very into their religion, certain hobbies, etc. Familiarity breeds attraction.

I agree with the statement about dating Greeks because they understand the commitment involved. I dated non-greeks and they had no clue what it was all about, and it caused a lot of fight.

Just be yourself and you will find someone who is interested in the same things you are.

[PhenomenalZTA]

When I was still collegiate, I used to think that all I wanted to date were fraternity guys (for reasons mentioned above, the smaller community aspect of greek life, they understand the huge commitment, etc.) but as soon as I became an Alum it all ceased to matter. Then I married a G.D.I. Though my husband doesn't always understand 100% of the time (when alum meetings run late, my obsession with strawberries,) he is still very supportive of my involvement.

[Buttonz]

Originally Posted by PhenomenalZTA

, my obsession with strawberries

Totally of topic but my last bf, who isn't greek, was obsessed with strawberries...I told him he should date a ZTA and he just looked at me like I was crazy, lol.

As for me, I have no problems dating a non-Greek.

[cuteASAbug]

I know plenty of sorority girls who would only date non-greek guys. It really depends on the caliber of what's out there at your school.