To the first questions(s) - yes, I dated non-Greeks. I dated one who was so impressed by my sorority that he turned around and founded a colony of Sigma Chi - so he became a Greek! My second husband is not a Greek. I dated gentlemen, not Greek letters.
To the unspoken question - do NOT join a fraternity for access to girls. If you can't get them outside of a fraternity, you won't get them in the fraternity. If you cannot commit to the ideals and principles of the fraternity, if you do not want to contribute to building something greater than yourself, if you aren't willing to be a true brother join some other club!
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Gamma Phi Beta
Courtesy is owed, respect is earned, love is given.
Proud daughter AND mother of a Gamma Phi. 3 generations of love, labor, learning and loyalty.
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