A question for the Pretty Boys from a Pretty Girl.....

ziasha07 · #1 06-06-2007, 11:56 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I've been this way(the committed type) since I hit puberty. I have never, ever liked women that wear that trash. Seriously, and I haven't changed and I won't change. Plus, a lot of young women like guys like the ones you just mentioned anyway.

True, but when you first meet/see a guy, how are you to know that they are the type guy that prefers scantily clad women?

PB I feel that you are the last of a dying breed if you've been that way since puberty.

PrettyBoy · #2 06-07-2007, 12:01 AM

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Originally Posted by ziasha07

True, but when you first meet/see a guy, how are you to know that they are the type guy that prefers scantily clad women?

PB I feel that you are the last of a dying breed if you've been that way since puberty.

No I'm not the last of a dying breed. There's a lot of nice men out there, the problem is a lot of women just don't want them. They want that low down trifling joker who's screwed several women and have other women on the side,while in a relationship.

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to want to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

delph998 · #3 06-07-2007, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

Some women feel that having sex with a man will prove how much she lves him OR will make that man fall in love with her.

PrettyBoy · #4 06-07-2007, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by delph998

Some women feel that having sex with a man will prove how much she lves him OR will make that man fall in love with her.

And that's a poor excuse that's stupid as hell. 9 times out of 10 once the joker gets the nookie, he's gone and she's standing there looking like an idiot with her panties around her ankles.

ziasha07 · #5 06-07-2007, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

No I'm not the last of a dying breed. There's a lot of nice men out there, the problem is a lot of women just don't want them. They want that low down trifling joker who's screwed several women and have other women on the side,while in a relationship.

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to want to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

Nice guys have never finished last in my book. They're just so shy and so am I so it never works. I've never persued the well known or "extra fine" dudes. I find them cocky and aggrivating. Plus, if you are the only guy I'm seeing, why am I not the only female you're seeing. That seems a little shady to me.

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And that's a poor excuse that's stupid as hell. 9 times out of 10 once the joker gets the nookie, he's gone and she's standing there looking like an idiot with her panties around her ankles.

Lmao! The way you phrased this was too funny. Seriously, I have seen this happen to girls before. So wrong.

*Insert plug/hijack for Abstinence here*

PrettyBoy · #6 06-07-2007, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by ziasha07

Nice guys have never finished last in my book. They're just so shy and so am I so it never works. I've never persued the well known or "extra fine" dudes. I find them cocky and aggrivating. Plus, if you are the only guy I'm seeing, why am I not the only female you're seeing. That seems a little shady to me.

Lmao! The way you phrased this was too funny. Seriously, I have seen this happen to girls before. So wrong.

*Insert plug/hijack for Abstinence here*

Yup, it's very shady, but a lot of men do it or have done it. They like to screw. They can't seem to stay with one woman only. "Long Term."

The silly part about it is these dumb women take these trifling jokers back everytime without fail, then when they get older have the nerve to want a nice guy. Please. I can't stand a used up woman that every dude has been with. That's trifling. Like I said in a previous thread, anything more than 3 and she can forget it.

Being with only one women is such a turn on for me, because I only want her.

christiangirl · #7 06-07-2007, 12:48 AM

So what EXACTLY is a "come screw me shoe"

IncontRHOllable · #8 06-12-2007, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

No I'm not the last of a dying breed. There's a lot of nice men out there, the problem is a lot of women just don't want them. They want that low down trifling joker who's screwed several women and have other women on the side,while in a relationship.

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to want to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

Correction, yes you are the last of a dying breed. Hmmmm, let's see. I don't believe in dating a lot of people. I believe that if you just wait, God will bring the person that you are suppose to marry to you (I know that opinion is not popular). From my experience, I have only had 3 boyfriends in my life, one of whom I was engaged to. They have left me because of the no sex/ no intimacy rule. When I say no intimacy, I mean just that. Holding hands and a kiss on the cheek is fine but that's it. My fiance left me too because although I broke my rule for him, he could not deal with the no intimacy rule ( I felt such guilt at breaking the rule that I recommitted myself to that rule and he did not want that, he felt that since we broke it we might as well keep breaking it. I disagreed the rest is history). So you see, there are women who want to live Godly lives, are living a wholesome and respectable lifetyle, but its the men who can't seem to control their hormones enough to wait on that kind of girl. It's the men that want the freak of the week or the down low boy toy. The thing that really angers me, is the men who passed me up because they heard about my rule and then latter on in life after they have had their share of women, want to come back to try to be with me so they can settle down. HECK NO!! Don't try to come back my way. What's even worse is those fools that tell me "you a nice girl, pretty and all that but its unrealistic to think some man is going to stay faithful to you when you not trying to show a brotha a little intimacy. I can wait a while, but you talking intimacy for marriage and that could be 3 years and a man ain't gonna wait that long and be faithful to you at the same time". Its sad but I am finding this to be true. The man that will do this is RARE!! He may still be on the potter's wheel. Now tell me again that wholesome men are out there and I'll tell you yes they are like the last of the Mohicans.

christiangirl · #9 06-12-2007, 04:53 PM

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Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable

I believe that if you just wait, God will bring the person that you are suppose to marry to you (I know that opinion is not popular).

I believe that, too but....now, I don't doubt my man's sense of direction, but would it be too much interference if I drew him a map? Just in case?

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What's even worse is those fools that tell me "you a nice girl, pretty and all that but its unrealistic to think some man is going to stay faithful to you when you not trying to show a brotha a little intimacy. I can wait a while, but you talking intimacy for marriage and that could be 3 years and a man ain't gonna wait that long and be faithful to you at the same time".

WE ARE --->HERE<---. If I had a dime for every time I heard that from a man (and women for that matter), I'd be able to pay back my student loans.

KAPPAtivating · #10 06-12-2007, 05:49 PM

^^^Ladies I am so apologetic on behalf of the good men out here in the world. I am a firm believer that anything (and I mean anything) worth having is worth waiting for! I tell my young Kappa League boys all the time that 1)Quality before Quanity and 2)I believe God arranged our bodies in order of importance. In other words, your brain and your heart come before your loins!

IncontRHOllable · #11 06-13-2007, 01:29 AM

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Originally Posted by christiangirl

I believe that, too but....now, I don't doubt my man's sense of direction, but would it be too much interference if I drew him a map? Just in case?

WE ARE --->HERE<---. If I had a dime for every time I heard that from a man (and women for that matter), I'd be able to pay back my student loans.

Christiangirl, you and I both would be debt free

Honestly, I am not expecting a man to be perfect because I am not, although I am striving everyday for Godly perfection. However, I do expect him to be faithful and to respect my beliefs and values. What is really getting me is this expectation that after they go out and sew their oats all over the world, that we (good women) are supposed to be there waiting on them to ask us to marry them and live happily ever after. AS IF!! I mean I know there is a shortage of available black men but we are not that desperate because a sista like me will marry a white, Asian, Hispanic, etc.,

KAPPAtivating · #12 06-13-2007, 11:06 AM

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What is really getting me is this expectation that after they go out and sew their oats all over the world, that we (good women) are supposed to be there waiting on them to ask us to marry them and live happily ever after. AS IF!! I mean I know there is a shortage of available black men but we are not that desperate because a sista like me will marry a white, Asian, Hispanic, etc.,

So what about the women who helped these dudes sew their oats, and they have six kids by six daddies? Are we supposed to be around waiting for them too? It goes two ways!

PrettyBoy · #13 06-13-2007, 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by KAPPAtivating

So what about the women who helped these dudes sew their oats, and they have six kids by six daddies? Are we supposed to be around waiting for them too? It goes two ways!

Ditto, Ditto, and Ditto 10 times fold. I couldn't have said it better myself Nupe.

Sugar08 · #14 06-13-2007, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by KAPPAtivating

So what about the women who helped these dudes sew their oats, and they have six kids by six daddies? Are we supposed to be around waiting for them too? It goes two ways!

Question for all:

Does it matter to you how many men a woman has slept with (she has no children); is there an upper limit?

Follow-up question:

What about if she's not happy with the number of women you have slept with?

Ladies, if you'd like to answer, please reverse the pronouns.

IncontRHOllable · #15 06-13-2007, 03:05 PM

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So what about the women who helped these dudes sew their oats, and they have six kids by six daddies? Are we supposed to be around waiting for them too? It goes two ways!

And you are exactly right. No argument for me on that.