A question for the Pretty Boys from a Pretty Girl.....

[PrettyBoy]

I don't respect women that wear that crap. They think men like it but most men just want to see them with their panites around their ankles. If I brought home a woman that was dressed like anything near that, my parents would be like.

I like women who respect themselves and dress with class. Those are the ones I bring home too meet the parents.

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I don't respect women that wear that crap. They think men like it but most men just want to see them with their panites around their ankles. If I brought home a woman that was dressed like anything near that, my parents would be like.

I like women who respect themselves and dress with class. Those are the ones I bring home too meet the parents.

How come when most men realize this they are usually past the college age and ready to settle down? Young men today in the 18-22 range generally run for "Saran Wrap" and stiletto clad women instead of the more conservatively dressed ones. It sends the message that female is undesireable unless half of her body is hanging out or squeezed into a tight outfit.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by ziasha07

How come when most men realize this they are usually past the college age and ready to settle down? Young men today in the 18-22 range generally run for "Saran Wrap" and stiletto clad women instead of the more conservatively dressed ones.

I've been this way(the committed type) since I hit puberty. I have never, ever liked women that wear that trash. Seriously, and I haven't changed and I won't change. Plus, a lot of young women like guys like the ones you just mentioned anyway.

[PrettyBoy]

fishnet stockings
stilettos
anklets
tight clothes of any type
tattoos
body piercings anywhere except the ears
come screw me shoes
multiple bracelets on the wrist
too much make up
weaves
long fake finger nails

A woman that wears any of the above plus me=none.

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

fishnet stockings
stilettos
anklets
tight clothes of any type
tattoos
body piercings anywhere except the ears
come screw me shoes
multiple bracelets on the wrist
too much make up
weaves
long fake finger nails

A woman that wears any of the above plus me=none.

This list is considerable understanding the fact that you prefer conservative women but weave and multiple bracelets?

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by ziasha07

This list is considerable understanding the fact that you prefer conservative women but weave and multiple bracelets?

Nope, I don't like hair weaves, and I won't date women who wear them. I'm not saying women who wear them are hoes though, I just don't find it attractive. One bracelet is cool, but I don't like several clanging around on her wrist. That's just my preference.

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

I've been this way(the committed type) since I hit puberty. I have never, ever liked women that wear that trash. Seriously, and I haven't changed and I won't change. Plus, a lot of young women like guys like the ones you just mentioned anyway.

True, but when you first meet/see a guy, how are you to know that they are the type guy that prefers scantily clad women?

PB I feel that you are the last of a dying breed if you've been that way since puberty.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by ziasha07

True, but when you first meet/see a guy, how are you to know that they are the type guy that prefers scantily clad women?

PB I feel that you are the last of a dying breed if you've been that way since puberty.

No I'm not the last of a dying breed. There's a lot of nice men out there, the problem is a lot of women just don't want them. They want that low down trifling joker who's screwed several women and have other women on the side,while in a relationship.

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to want to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

[delph998]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

Some women feel that having sex with a man will prove how much she lves him OR will make that man fall in love with her.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by delph998

Some women feel that having sex with a man will prove how much she lves him OR will make that man fall in love with her.

And that's a poor excuse that's stupid as hell. 9 times out of 10 once the joker gets the nookie, he's gone and she's standing there looking like an idiot with her panties around her ankles.

[IncontRHOllable]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

No I'm not the last of a dying breed. There's a lot of nice men out there, the problem is a lot of women just don't want them. They want that low down trifling joker who's screwed several women and have other women on the side,while in a relationship.

Yes I have always been a one woman man since puberty. I've never even had the desire to want to be with more than one woman, and I know I never will. Fast dressing women are a big turn off for me. Women like that can't even get me aroused. Why do people have to sleep with everyone they meet? What are they trying to prove?

Correction, yes you are the last of a dying breed. Hmmmm, let's see. I don't believe in dating a lot of people. I believe that if you just wait, God will bring the person that you are suppose to marry to you (I know that opinion is not popular). From my experience, I have only had 3 boyfriends in my life, one of whom I was engaged to. They have left me because of the no sex/ no intimacy rule. When I say no intimacy, I mean just that. Holding hands and a kiss on the cheek is fine but that's it. My fiance left me too because although I broke my rule for him, he could not deal with the no intimacy rule ( I felt such guilt at breaking the rule that I recommitted myself to that rule and he did not want that, he felt that since we broke it we might as well keep breaking it. I disagreed the rest is history). So you see, there are women who want to live Godly lives, are living a wholesome and respectable lifetyle, but its the men who can't seem to control their hormones enough to wait on that kind of girl. It's the men that want the freak of the week or the down low boy toy. The thing that really angers me, is the men who passed me up because they heard about my rule and then latter on in life after they have had their share of women, want to come back to try to be with me so they can settle down. HECK NO!! Don't try to come back my way. What's even worse is those fools that tell me "you a nice girl, pretty and all that but its unrealistic to think some man is going to stay faithful to you when you not trying to show a brotha a little intimacy. I can wait a while, but you talking intimacy for marriage and that could be 3 years and a man ain't gonna wait that long and be faithful to you at the same time". Its sad but I am finding this to be true. The man that will do this is RARE!! He may still be on the potter's wheel. Now tell me again that wholesome men are out there and I'll tell you yes they are like the last of the Mohicans.

[christiangirl]

Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable

I believe that if you just wait, God will bring the person that you are suppose to marry to you (I know that opinion is not popular).

I believe that, too but....now, I don't doubt my man's sense of direction, but would it be too much interference if I drew him a map? Just in case?

Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable

What's even worse is those fools that tell me "you a nice girl, pretty and all that but its unrealistic to think some man is going to stay faithful to you when you not trying to show a brotha a little intimacy. I can wait a while, but you talking intimacy for marriage and that could be 3 years and a man ain't gonna wait that long and be faithful to you at the same time".

WE ARE --->HERE<---. If I had a dime for every time I heard that from a man (and women for that matter), I'd be able to pay back my student loans.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable

Correction, yes you are the last of a dying breed. Hmmmm, let's see. I don't believe in dating a lot of people. I believe that if you just wait, God will bring the person that you are suppose to marry to you (I know that opinion is not popular). From my experience, I have only had 3 boyfriends in my life, one of whom I was engaged to. They have left me because of the no sex/ no intimacy rule. When I say no intimacy, I mean just that. Holding hands and a kiss on the cheek is fine but that's it. My fiance left me too because although I broke my rule for him, he could not deal with the no intimacy rule ( I felt such guilt at breaking the rule that I recommitted myself to that rule and he did not want that, he felt that since we broke it we might as well keep breaking it. I disagreed the rest is history). So you see, there are women who want to live Godly lives, are living a wholesome and respectable lifetyle, but its the men who can't seem to control their hormones enough to wait on that kind of girl. It's the men that want the freak of the week or the down low boy toy. The thing that really angers me, is the men who passed me up because they heard about my rule and then latter on in life after they have had their share of women, want to come back to try to be with me so they can settle down. HECK NO!! Don't try to come back my way. What's even worse is those fools that tell me "you a nice girl, pretty and all that but its unrealistic to think some man is going to stay faithful to you when you not trying to show a brotha a little intimacy. I can wait a while, but you talking intimacy for marriage and that could be 3 years and a man ain't gonna wait that long and be faithful to you at the same time". Its sad but I am finding this to be true. The man that will do this is RARE!! He may still be on the potter's wheel. Now tell me again that wholesome men are out there and I'll tell you yes they are like the last of the Mohicans.

I think that's great that you're a good woman. Stay that way. Like I said before hold on to the panties and see how long a joker hangs around. If he leaves, then he's a sorry low down joker. I like it when women hold back the panties. To me it means she's not just about sex. Also, I've never been the aggressor. The women I've gone out with in the past have always made the 1st move, so for me sex is great but not a priority.

When most women get a good guy, their insecurities come out and they mess up everytime. At least they did with me. A lot of times that comes from dating bad boys, and other reasons too. Most women simply think most men, if not all are dogs, and that's far from the truth. Like I said, sex is great, but it's not the end all be all. Me personally, I love having sex, but only with one woman. If she chooses not to have sex, then that's cool too. As long as she's a good woman, I'm her's for life with or without the sex. Now if I'm married to her, yeah, if she still doesn't want to have sex, then something's wrong with her. As long as she doesn't give me a reason to leave, which would be a form of cheating, then I wouldn't leave. To me cheating doesn't only mean sleeping with another guy.

Faithful? Yes, I've always been this way. In my past relationships, I just chose the wrong women. They were out there, and I was and still am the opposite. They would lie to me by trying to lower the number of men they slept with so I would be with them, and like an idiot I would. Not anymore. I know if she's lying now. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I've always known women to like bad boys. I've always said that if I ever met a beautiful woman who didn't fool around with bad boys, came from a good family, was educated, God fearing, honest, faithful, and loved me for me and only me, that would be my woman. I used to always go last behind bad boys, but now there's no way in hell. I've never ever cheated and I never will, and there are a lot of men out there like that, you just have to kind of run into them by accident I guess.

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by ziasha07

True, but when you first meet/see a guy, how are you to know that they are the type guy that prefers scantily clad women?

PB I feel that you are the last of a dying breed if you've been that way since puberty.

You asked how are you supposed to know when you 1st meet a guy if he's that way?

Time will tell. Hold back on the draws and see how long he hangs around. If he truely likes you and only you, he'll stay. If he just wants the draws, he'll get it from a skanky dressed women who's loose as hell.

[ziasha07]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

You asked how are you supposed to know when you 1st meet a guy if he's that way?

Time will tell. Hold back on the draws and see how long he hangs around. If he truely likes you and only you, he'll stay. If he just wants the draws, he'll get it from a skanky dressed women who's loose as hell.

Hence the quote in my signature "Damn, she pressed the easy button..." This would apply to females who take the easy way out when getting a man. Stole this from the Facebook group:

"For those who are considered to be a challenge and have been passed over or given up on for a "Loser", or unworthy person. You know, those chicks who keep the books closed and legs and or mouth open!!! This group is also for anyone who has been passed over or overlooked and their position was given to a "less qualified" person because someone took the easy way out....They Pressed the Easy Button!!!!!"