Why I Left GreekChat

[KSigkid]

Originally Posted by Leslie Anne

I'm going to get flamed for this, but I don't care.

Those of you, so far, who have posted that this isn't a big deal are not members of an NPC. Perhaps that is why you don't understand how bashing an NPC for 15 paragraphs is extremely offensive.

Ordinarily, getting a nasty PM would be a private thing to deal with, but when someone suggests that there is a whole group of people on GC who are in agreement about the "status" of a certain NPC and they are all ridiculing you behind your back it's their prerogative to make it public and get other opinions.

This is upsetting to many NPC members. Obviously, you're free to disagree but I'd like to suggest that maybe you just don't get it.

No, but I am a member of a large fraternity, and went to a school with NPC groups, so I think I probably "get" it.

I read the OP's post as something different than calling attention to the issue, more looking for justification from others that the PM was nasty/rude/etc.

Originally Posted by KSigkid

I read the OP's post as something different than calling attention to the issue, more looking for justification from others that the PM was nasty/rude/etc.

YES.

The OP wanted a healthy and lively debate, but that's impossible because the discussion's very one-sided.

[KSigkid]

Originally Posted by OTW

YES.

The OP wanted a healthy and lively debate, but that's impossible because the discussion's very one-sided.

Additionally, if there is an issue, isn't it something that should be left to, at most, the DZ's in the board? Most members of other orgs aren't going to have the full story, and won't have enough of an understanding of DZ to comment intelligently on the issue.

[susan314]

Originally Posted by KSigkid

Additionally, if there is an issue, isn't it something that should be left to, at most, the DZ's in the board? Most members of other orgs aren't going to have the full story, and won't have enough of an understanding of DZ to comment intelligently on the issue.

I disagree b/c the post wasn't just about internal DZ related issues - it was discussing DZ's "place" or "rank" among other NPC groups nationally and was insinuating that the majority of other NPC members would hold the same/similar feelings. I don't think its inappropriate for members of other NPC groups to let BamaDad know that kaikey doesn't speak for all of us. ("Us" meaning NPC women as a group.)