White men in NPHC

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by DSTRen13

I mean no offense by this, but this is one of those things that is just very different between NPC and NPHC, and I don't know if you can understand without being a member, just like I know I will never be able to understand NPC recruitment rules.

It would completely absurd for a non-black BGLO member to be offended when he or she is questioned about membership. Honestly, if I am walking down the street and meet a woman wearing letters that I don't know, I am going to accept her more quickly as my Soror if she is black - I mean, if nothing else, that's statistics. If you are a non-black member of a BGLO (which, as most of you know, I am), then you expect questions - about your legitimacy, your motives, etc. Some people will have a big problem with you, others won't. If you can't deal with that, and it's not worth it to you, you don't join the org.

I got some of that from DSTChao's posts, I just think it a shame that there is MORE on a non-black member, however expected that is. I do learn things here