Really Need Help w/ Recs! I'm confused!

[irishpipes]

Originally Posted by sweetgirl424

Hey everyone!
I am planning on rushing this fall as a freshman, so I have started thinking about getting recommendations. It seems like a big deal at the school I will be going to. I don't know where to start though, because I can't figure out where my local Panhellenic Association is? Also, I don't know who I could ask for recommendations.. I am starting to get frustrated, and I really could use anyone's help!

I live In Fort Smith, Arkansas.. and plan on attending the University of Arkansas in Fayetteville this fall. If anyone can help me out, I would greatly appreciate it!!!
Thank You!!

You will definitely need recs to all sororities at the U of A. I would ask your mom to help you - see if any of her friends or acquaintances are greek. Also ask your teachers, ladies from church, etc. Good luck!

[susan314]

Originally Posted by irishpipes

You will definitely need recs to all sororities at the U of A. I would ask your mom to help you - see if any of her friends or acquaintances are greek. Also ask your teachers, ladies from church, etc. Good luck!

This is a good suggestion - you might be pleasantly surprised to realize that you already do have a connection with some NPC women. (Or even that they could put you in touch with women who are Greek.) I'd also add to the list - neighbors, families you've babysat for regularly, your friends' parents, etc.

I'd be willing to bet that you know at least one or two NPC women, even if you don't realize it!

[TSteven]

Originally Posted by susan314

This is a good suggestion - you might be pleasantly surprised to realize that you already do have a connection with some NPC women. (Or even that they could put you in touch with women who are Greek.) I'd also add to the list - neighbors, families you've babysat for regularly, your friends' parents, etc.

I'd be willing to bet that you know at least one or two NPC women, even if you don't realize it!

As susan314 noted, expand your list. As such - and I've said this before and I'll say it again - PNMs should check with male friends, family members and other male "connections" as well. Some might be married to an NPC member, have relatives that are members, and or have friends who are members.

From personal experience, I've been able to direct a few of my friends' daughters to NPC members who were then able to help them secure recommendations.