I am fairly confident that no headquarters keep records of PNMs who were not invited back to a party. Can you imagine the paperwork?? I'm in the process of touring all 26 headquarters (7 down, 19 to go!) and I have yet to have a guide say "And here is where we keep the records for everyone a chapter did not invite back or extend a bid to!"
As was expressed eloquently above, you will never have a situation where everyone in a group gets along. I believe that any time you have 3 or more people, there is conflict. So I second the idea of leaving the past behind and going forward. Good luck -
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