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Originally Posted by jessicaelaine
I don't see how a fraternity could hide the fact they are a "bad house" whatever that means. Maybe they can razzel dazzel a pnm with girls, alcohol, trophies, or whatever else, but anyone that is attracted to a fraternity because of those reasons is a tool bag.
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Oh come on, that is complete BS. If you ask every freshmen rushee what they are looking for in a house, it is going to be something along the lines of great reputation with top sororities, great parties, wealthy chapter, etc. That is a fact. I have been through, what 4 rushes, and I have yet to see a kid come through looking for "strong brotherhood, great philanthropy oppurtunities, etc." It just doesn't happen...and I have never expected to hear it from the young guys. They are 18 year old college freshmen for Christ's sake. Brotherhood is something you learn over time.
That is completely moronic to call them a bunch of "toolbags" for wanting to party and be around hot women. I'm sorry, but anyone who tells me that most guys don't think about that kind of stuff when they rush.....is a f**king liar. It happens, let's just leave it at that. I would go through a whole spiel about it....but judging from your posts I think you would just try to argue about it anyways. I'll spare myself.
Obviously though, you are a girl and have no idea how fraternities function.........so I wouldn't really expect you to know how bad chapters go about making themselves look good during rush. I wouldn't worry about it too much if I were you.