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03-21-2007, 09:21 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Because we all know that being with 4 partners makes you a dirty whore but being with 3 makes you suitable to date PrettyBoy.
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*hurries off to sleep with more people*
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03-21-2007, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin
*hurries off to sleep with more people*
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Awww.....do you not want to be suitable for GC's own PrettyBoy shame on you. J/K
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03-21-2007, 09:32 PM
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PB answered a question honestly, without passing judgement on anybody and while admitting that everyone has their own opinions and preferences. So what's with the cyber-teasing (this isn't directed at whoever's right above me)?
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03-21-2007, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
PB answered a question honestly, without passing judgement on anybody and while admitting that everyone has their own opinions and preferences. So what's with the cyber-teasing (this isn't directed at whoever's right above me)?
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I don't know Pretty Boy, but his posts read like some kid from the sticks of Indiana who's never been outside his mama's house for more than 10 minutes at a time. This is all well and good, but it's kind of hard to resist making fun of him for it.
ETA: Also, and I'm really not kidding, don't you worry about getting married to some guy only to find out that you have terrible sex together? What then?
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03-21-2007, 09:39 PM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
I don't know Pretty Boy, but his posts read like some kid from the sticks of Indiana who's never been outside his mama's house for more than 10 minutes at a time. This is all well and good, but it's kind of hard to resist making fun of him for it.
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Worse, Minnesota. 
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03-21-2007, 09:40 PM
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Originally Posted by GeekyPenguin
Worse, Minnesota. |
I guess he missed the sex boat.   
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03-21-2007, 09:42 PM
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How would she know the difference? She wouldn't have anything to compare it to.
Content with stale crackers . . . Never knowing the taste of a Ritz . . . with cheese spread . . .
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
ETA: Also, and I'm really not kidding, don't you worry about getting married to some guy only to find out that you have terrible sex together? What then?
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03-21-2007, 09:47 PM
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Originally Posted by James
How would she know the difference? She wouldn't have anything to compare it to.
Content with stale crackers . . . Never knowing the taste of a Ritz . . . with cheese spread . . .
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She wouldn't know enough to judge the technique, but I find it VERY hard to believe that a woman wouldn't know that the sex was bad. I also find it hard to believe that even if she wasn't sure it was bad, she'd slowly begin to suspect as much, and by the time her sex drive really takes off in her 30s, she'd be frustrated and ready to kick it with the next reasonably attractive guy who pays the slightest bit of attention to her.
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03-21-2007, 10:00 PM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
She wouldn't know enough to judge the technique, but I find it VERY hard to believe that a woman wouldn't know that the sex was bad. I also find it hard to believe that even if she wasn't sure it was bad, she'd slowly begin to suspect as much, and by the time her sex drive really takes off in her 30s, she'd be frustrated and ready to kick it with the next reasonably attractive guy who pays the slightest bit of attention to her.
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If she hasn't been practicing her Kegels, she won't really have that many issues of knowing it's bad unless it lasts less than 30 seconds...
I mean, most guys last 15 minutes... Guys not on Vitamin V, that can last longer than that time with ejaculatory control--well, some of them don't have "endownments": some lack in girth but stay up, whereas, some lack in length, like a wet Q-tip.
Besides, I think some of these virginal young ladies are hitting their fecundity--you know all that drive stuff is starting earlier and earlier...
They just can't wear 3 inch heels... 
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03-21-2007, 10:05 PM
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Valkyrie: I won't play Miss Phony and/or Perfect. I have OFTEN worried about that aspect of marriage. I would have to do 1 of 3 things.
1) Get us some help [i.e. videos, a class...] 2) Pray or 3) Marry a Kappa Man. Just Kidding! But on real note, I don't even know what I'd do if it didn't work at all. I do know I'd be severly disappointed.
BTW: Lol. Wow! I don't think I'd just hit it with the next person... (I never say never because things and people change.) But I think and hope that I'd be mature enough and strong enough to not run out on my husband.
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03-21-2007, 10:51 PM
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Originally Posted by valkyrie
She wouldn't know enough to judge the technique, but I find it VERY hard to believe that a woman wouldn't know that the sex was bad. I also find it hard to believe that even if she wasn't sure it was bad, she'd slowly begin to suspect as much, and by the time her sex drive really takes off in her 30s, she'd be frustrated and ready to kick it with the next reasonably attractive guy who pays the slightest bit of attention to her.
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OMG....gasp.....JAMES IS RIGHT!!!!!!!!! lol, except for the cheese spread EEEEWWWW! j/k
Lol, I do think about that sometimes (mainly because people like you keep asking me ). Honestly, I doubt I'll know it's bad unless it hurts like hell (after the 3rd or 4th time). That's one of the pluses of waiting...we could be having really lousy sex, but if I can't compare it with anything, how should I know? I think of it like this: When I was 8, my mom gave me 10 bucks and I was practically HIGH with excitement. I'd never had so much and absolutely lost my mind with how good I had it. Now, some 13-ish years later, I can go through $1000 like it's nothing. What I wouldn't give to be THAT excited over $10 without being practically starving with $3 in my account and nothing but a stick of butter in the fridge.
Besides, 1. I figure if I don't marry my husband for sex, I won't stray from him for sex and I certainly wouldn't leave him for sex. 2. I can probably keep it interesting enough that it won't be bad for long. I have the sneaking suspicion that after all the time I'm waiting, I'm gonna be a freak.
/end hijack
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03-22-2007, 10:14 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by christiangirl
PB answered a question honestly, without passing judgement on anybody and while admitting that everyone has their own opinions and preferences. So what's with the cyber-teasing (this isn't directed at whoever's right above me)?
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Honestly answering a question doesn't preclude being judgmental. There was an obvious value judgment in his post and he even admitted so by admitting to a double standard.
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03-22-2007, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
Honestly answering a question doesn't preclude being judgmental. There was an obvious value judgment in his post and he even admitted so by admitting to a double standard.
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I never said honesty and judgements were related. IMO, the fact that he started the statement with "I think" instead of "It is" shows that he was expressing an opinion rather than passing a judgement. Unless the double standard is admitting that his values are different from others', then I didn't see one, but that's me.
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03-22-2007, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by christiangirl
I never said honesty and judgements were related. IMO, the fact that he started the statement with "I think" instead of "It is" shows that he was expressing an opinion rather than passing a judgement. Unless the double standard is admitting that his values are different from others', then I didn't see one, but that's me.
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Nah, the reality is that statements that start with "I think" can be just as judgmental as those that start with "It is" - PrettyBoy is entitled to his own opinion and values, and he wasn't really being a dick about it, but it's still pretty plainly there.
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03-22-2007, 02:10 PM
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Nah, the reality is that statements that start with "I think" can be just as judgmental as those that start with "It is" -
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They can be--whether or not it was here is subjective. I guess my glasses have a different lens.
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