Would you get seriously involved with a guy/girl if he/she......

AlphaFrog · #1 03-21-2007, 09:58 AM

If you're not going to like the answer, DON'T ASK THE QUESTION.

And for virgins, you two are sure obsessed with sex. Will you just get laid already?

xo_kathy · #2 03-21-2007, 10:26 AM

I didn't end it, I married him. He has a ridiculously high number IMO. He's also older, was in his early 20s in the 80s when the whole world was sleeping together, and had come out of it all with not a single STD. I figured he must be good luck.

Seriosuly, as they others have said, it all depends and if you can't handle the answer, don't ask the question.

Kevin · #3 03-21-2007, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

And for virgins, you two are sure obsessed with sex. Will you just get laid already?

That's a great observation.

jwright25 · #4 03-21-2007, 11:46 AM

I figure that anything anyone has done in the past, without me, is NOT MY BUSINESS. If I'm planning on sleeping with him, all that should concern me is whether or not he is clean. Everyone makes mistakes. I wouldn't want to miss out on a good thing because of mistakes made years before when I wasn't in the picture. While I don't consider anyone in my past a mistake, I wouldn't want to continue to punish a man for something he might consider a mistake. I never brought up sexual past when I was dating. To me that is just psycho, nosy, and a warning flag for future stalking of exes. Again, being disease-free is the most important thing. And still take precautions until several tests come back negative. For BOTH of us.

PAST = NOT MY BUSINESS. Period. If I don't want him running a background check and questioning every move, I'm sure as hell not gonna do it to him.

Plus, how do you know he's not lying? Either to increase the number or decrease the number? You have no way of proving anything, so why concern yourself with it?

AlexMack · #5 03-21-2007, 01:06 PM

Another good reason not to bring up the past-if you really like this guy/girl, it will drive you insane to think about them being with someone else before you. You do not need that kind of obsession going on. It will tear you apart.
Are they clean? Are they concentrating on you and not dwelling on old flames? If both answers are yes, leave it alone.

christiangirl · #6 03-21-2007, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by valkyrie

Yes, yes, and yes.

Also, are christiangirl and cheerfulgreek the new Moochagoo/curiousgirl?

Who are they?

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

And for virgins, you two are sure obsessed with sex. Will you just get laid already?

That doesn't make any sense. The other CG already said she's not a virgin. And, if you're referring to me as the other in "you two," I've only posted one sex-related thread in my x amount of years on here so.......

RoyalEmpress33 · #7 03-21-2007, 11:38 AM

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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog

If you're not going to like the answer, DON'T ASK THE QUESTION.

And for virgins, you two are sure obsessed with sex. Will you just get laid already?

Amen. I totally agree. Leave the past where it belongs--in the PAST. Never bring this topic up! If that person treats you well, you get along, and you can name more pros than cons while dating this individual, then why not keep pursuing it? It would be shocking if that person had been with a number of people I must admit, but, if they didn't have any diseases threatening their life, I wouldn't care really.