What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[RoyalEmpress33]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Let's say you were on a 1st date with someone and everything is going great. The conversation is good, and you're physically attracted to this person. During the conversation what would raise a yellow flag, and what would raise the red flag for you to say: "Oh hell no! There will not be a 2nd date!"

Wow, this is a good question. I think I have been blessed with the ability to find out within the first few minutes if I'll be dating someone period, let alone a second date.

Now, let's see here:

1.) I would look to see how he treats the women in his family. If I ahead of time find out that his rapport with the family isn't stellar, he might as well hang it up because there will be no second date. Red flag! Just stop right there.

2.) If he walks around with his pants hanging off of his behind(not that there is anything wrong with that, if that's what you like), there will be no second date. That's just not for me. You don't have to walk around dressed like your going to the academy awards, but you need to look decent. You're an ADULT now. Red flag.

3.) If he's not chivalrous. Nope. No second date. Treat a woman like a woman and remember to open doors, and pull out seats. I know this is 2007 and times have changed, but mannerisms shouldn't. I know this may seem kind of mean or even silly, but so what? Chivalry is like totally dead and decaying.

4.) I would consider myself an intellectual kind of girl so if he's more preoccupied with what happened on 106 & Park or the latest version of Jordans that came out, he can count me out.

5.) If he's sarcastic. He might as well not even bother calling.

6.) If he stays in the mirror more than I do, I would be worried. True, you should care about your image, but my goodness.

7.) If he talks too much, there will be no second date.

8.) I can't stand emotional or whiny type guys. No female wants another female around so if he's a whiny brat that always finds something to complain about, he needs to stay away from me.

9.) If he indicates anything that would make me think he is controlling. Uh uh, that's not going to work. If he thinks he's going to control me, he's got the wrong sista!

10.) If he smokes, ummm, ewww! That's gross. Cancer sticks-bleh!

11.) If he's a momma's boy, he might as well stay there with his mommy and not bother me.