What would raise a yellow, or red flag on a 1st date for you?

[PrettyBoy]

Something just came to my attention. When women describe themselves by comparing their features to food and beverage items. For example when they say "I have cocoa colored skin with coffee colored eyes" or they say their eyes are shaped like some kind of nut or something, or I have honey colored skin or something stupid like that. I hate that. RED FLAG ALL THE WAY. That's ghetto.

[Scandia]

Aren't you overreacting just a little? Metaphors are cool. I sometimes say I have "raven waves" or "creamy skin".

Perhaps it may be a pet peeve, but does it merit a RED FLAG? Shouldn't the term red flag be saved for true dealbreakers like "she does drugs" or "she's pressuring me to do things I do not feel comfortable with" or "she has absolutely no ambition other than to get a sugar daddy to buy her stuff"???

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Not too long ago my best friend set me up on a blind date that I didn't want to go on, but he talked me into it. She and I talked on the phone for a few hours, a week before our date. She wanted to go see a movie (bad place on a 1st date), so we met at the theater. This girl was so short it was insane. She was o.k. looking, very insecure, but extremely short. I was so mad at myself for letting my buddy talk me into going out with her. I'm 5'8' so I'm no giant, but I can't go out with a woman barely 5 feet.

PrettyBoy you're a little guy. I'm 5'7". I don't wear really high heels but the heels I do wear I would stilll be taller than you. We should start calling you PrettyshortBoy. LOL.

[PrettyBoy]

The girl I went out with on the blind date was actually 4'11". That's way too short. I've gone out with a women that was 5'6", and that height was cool. When she wore heals we were about the same height. I wouldn't go with a woman who was taller than me, plus women that wear really high heels like the stilettos (not sure how to spell it, but you guys no what I mean) that's a turn off to me. I like the lower business type of heal, so women that are 5"6' are great, and I just remeasured myself too. I'm actually 5'9". I wasn't too far off though. 5'8"/5'9" same thing.