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Originally Posted by PKTKKG
let them know that you can really feel the sisterhood of the group and what a great thing that is.
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Most of the advice we can give you is all a matter of opinion. For instance, the above, to me personally, would have been weird to hear when I was an active. I mean, maybe it you phrased it something like "everyone here seems like such good friends" it might sound better, but saying you can "really feel the sisterhood" sounds strange to me. Say what you actually believe or think, don't be a cheeseball or stalkerlike. Don't say something you think they want to hear when you don't believe it yourself.
I will also echo what has been said above. Having a cousin in this group means little to nothing. Judging from the number of times you've asked about it, it seems like you're hoping to rely on it. Rest on your own laurels, don't think you have an "in". Your cousin only has one vote. It takes a lot more votes than that to be extended a bid.