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Originally Posted by lacavazzini
philanthropy is tomorrow friday feb 16 and saturday feb 17. i can attend all 4, the max is 5 but i didnt get invites back from 5. my top 2 sororities are still in the 4 i have left. is there anything you guys reccommend saying that would let the girls know that im really interested in their sorority that may help my chances of getting invited back for preference without sounding obsessed?
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Be genuinely excited about their party. Compliment them on their party, decorations, etc. and let them know that you can really feel the sisterhood of the group and what a great thing that is. Tell them how happy you are that you are back today and that you have met some wonderful women this week. Let them know how exciting it is to hope that soon you will be participating in activities and how you can't wait to get involved. Continue to ask good questions. A good one to ask and show interest is 'why did you go XYZ' 'How did you decide'? It should provoke some good discussion and shows great interst on your part.
I agree that you don't want to be rabid about the exitement, but show enough to let them know that you are genuinely interested in their group without saying those exact words.
Good luck!!!