Could I get some advice?

[whitelily]

Originally Posted by KLPDaisy

In your first post you say that you never rushed. In your second you say that you were offered a bid. This makes me think that you are not a good candidate for AI. It actually makes me quite glad that locals don't do AI.

I never rushed. I went to a party and met the girls. I then was offered a bid at the end of the party. I did not go through rush.

Thanks for being so helpful. Gheesh. Is everyone on here so nice?

[AlexMack]

Originally Posted by whitelily

I never rushed. I went to a party and met the girls. I then was offered a bid at the end of the party. I did not go through rush.

Thanks for being so helpful. Gheesh. Is everyone on here so nice?

Sorry, we're all just a little jaded and sensitive over the subject lately. I hope you dug around in this forum to figure out why, it's become no man's land of late.
Any hints on your almer mater?

[whitelily]

Originally Posted by centaur532

Sorry, we're all just a little jaded and sensitive over the subject lately. I hope you dug around in this forum to figure out why, it's become no man's land of late.
Any hints on your almer mater?

I prefer to keep my alma mater a secret. I have been advised to remain fairly discreet.

I will say that nobility is an important aspect of the group I so admire.

[tunatartare]

Originally Posted by whitelily

I prefer to keep my alma mater a secret. I have been advised to remain fairly discreet.

I will say that nobility is an important aspect of the group I so admire.

So that narrows it down to Kappa or ZTA. Yup, you're being very discreet here.

[Sister Havana]

Originally Posted by KLPDaisy

So that narrows it down to Kappa or ZTA. Yup, you're being very discreet here.

I was thinking ADPi or Phi Mu because of the lion mascot.

Originally Posted by whitelily

I never rushed. I went to a party and met the girls. I then was offered a bid at the end of the party. I did not go through rush.

Thanks for being so helpful. Gheesh. Is everyone on here so nice?

ALWAYS.

[whitelily]

Originally Posted by OTW

ALWAYS.

I just don't understand the anomosity I am getting on here. Some have warned me. But, all I am trying to do is get some advice on the process. I am not out to destroy greek life. I am just here to seek some help.

Please don't bring your anger into this thread.

[AlexMack]

Originally Posted by whitelily

I just don't understand the anomosity I am getting on here. Some have warned me. But, all I am trying to do is get some advice on the process. I am not out to destroy greek life. I am just here to seek some help.

Please don't bring your anger into this thread.

Did you not read and comprehend what I told you? Read the forum some more, look at the locked threads. Don't expect sunshine and roses here, I'm just saying. You seriously would be better off PMing a member of the org you're looking at.

[GDIfly]

Originally Posted by whitelily

Thanks for being so helpful. Gheesh. Is everyone on here so nice?

AI is a touchy subject. Very touchy.

You say you have some colleagues who are in this organization. My suggestion would be to talk to them about AI. Some organizations encourage it and do it regularly, some do it rarely to never, but women who are members will either know or be able to get the information that you need about your opportunities better than a bunch of strangers on the internet who may or may not be familiar with the AI process of this group.

[CutiePie2000]

Originally Posted by whitelily

I never rushed. I went to a party and met the girls. I then was offered a bid at the end of the party. I did not go through rush.

It sounds like you went through COB (Continuous Open Bidding) or what some people refer to as "informal rush" (including my alma mater, back in the day). Rushing (whether it be "formal recruitment" or COB) is essentially the Panhellenic concept of "mutual selection"; you meet them & they meet you, you see if you like them & they see if they like you....I'm sure you catch the drift.

I just wanted to mention that as you are seeking "alumnae initiation", not alumni initiation. Yes, it sounds nit-picky, but if you are clear on the nomenclature, it just kinda sounds more like you know what you are talking about.

If you are still in contact with that person who is now an alumna, they might be a good option to start with. Somewhere along the line, you will likely need a sponsor for membership, in order to 'seal the deal'. They could also serve as an introduction to the alumnae chapter, which is better than going in "cold" (IMO). I think it depends on where you live (regionally speaking) but if you are approaching the group on your own recommendation, rather than being introduced via your sorority friend, you could be in for a tough(er) journey.