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Old 11-16-2006, 09:15 AM
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I'm not sure that I understand exactly what u are trying to say. If u are able to relate to her as a friend, why would it be hard to relate to her as a girlfriend? Her skin may be different from yours but she's still a person.
and there are a completely different set of issues betweeb dating interracially and having diversity among your friends.
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Old 11-16-2006, 05:12 PM
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and there are a completely different set of issues betweeb dating interracially and having diversity among your friends.
do u know that personally? cause i've never had a problem with any of my interracial relationships.
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Old 11-16-2006, 07:00 PM
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do u know that personally? cause i've never had a problem with any of my interracial relationships.
Why do ppl continue to use their own experience as a benchmark for others? It is absolutely wonderful that you have had successful interracial relationships, but how does that speak to someone else's life, family, environment, etc?
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Old 11-16-2006, 10:15 PM
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Why do ppl continue to use their own experience as a benchmark for others? It is absolutely wonderful that you have had successful interracial relationships, but how does that speak to someone else's life, family, environment, etc?
Correction not just mine, but others around me. I don't know where you're from but I'm glad I don't live there if you're all a bunch of bigots.
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Old 11-16-2006, 08:05 PM
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do u know that personally? cause i've never had a problem with any of my interracial relationships.
yea, i know that personally. i've done it enough times to know the stigma behind it.
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Old 11-16-2006, 10:16 PM
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yea, i know that personally. i've done it enough times to know the stigma behind it.
F**ck a stigma, so in other words, you let other people tell u what to do? Interesting.
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Old 11-16-2006, 11:03 PM
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F**ck a stigma, so in other words, you let other people tell u what to do? Interesting.
Is that what his post said?
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Old 11-17-2006, 01:21 AM
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F**ck a stigma, so in other words, you let other people tell u what to do? Interesting.
is that what you got from my statement?

uhhhhh

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Old 11-16-2006, 11:05 PM
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yea, i know that personally. i've done it enough times to know the stigma behind it.
Aren't 100% of your relationships interracial? LOL.

You definitely know the stigma. But the stigma doesn't stop you from finding a woman you're compatible with even if she's not Hispanic like you are, right? I wuv u 2.
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Old 11-17-2006, 01:22 AM
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Aren't 100% of your relationships interracial? LOL.

You definitely know the stigma. But the stigma doesn't stop you from finding a woman you're compatible with even if she's not Hispanic like you are, right? I wuv u 2.
naw, about 90 percent

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Old 11-17-2006, 01:01 PM
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naw, about 90 percent

LOL
You've been lying to me. Not surprising.
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Old 11-17-2006, 01:02 PM
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You've been lying to me. Not surprising.
LOL, i had those few asian chicks here and there

i still love my people, so it's for the culture
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