You ladies should read this book called "Color Complex". It's really interesting. It talks about fraternities and sororities too. I guess back in the day XYZ frat and XYZ sorority would only pick lighter toned men and women. Check the book out if you've never heard of it. It's really deep. I think it's unfortunate that these kinds of things still go on. I don't think it's really that bad with black men, but with the women it's really bad.
A lot of people think I'm half black half white. I've had people think I'm Indian too. My parents are black.
I usually see women more attracted to darker men, but I usually see men more attracted to lighter women. Me? I like em' all.