WTF she joined my sorority?!

sdsuchelle · #1 10-06-2006, 02:21 PM

My problem with her mostly stems from the fact that she's a psycho and just generally not a good person... she's one of those girls who causes drama wherever she goes. A few months after I broke up with my ex, I called him to make amends and try to be friends. He was totally fine with it, and things were great until she called me like 10 times the next day to bitch me out for speaking to him. Oh, and I was at work. Then she proceeded to text me incessantly (even though I stopped talking to my ex, regretfully). I had to change my phone number.

Yeah, shes one of THOSE girls.

Let's just hope she doesn't rush.

*crosses fingers*

KSUViolet06 · #2 10-06-2006, 02:43 PM

We cut a girl during recruitment that slit our secretary's tires in HS. I think that is a very valid reason to cut someone.

PeppyGPhiB · #3 10-06-2006, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by KSUViolet06

We cut a girl during recruitment that slit our secretary's tires in HS. I think that is a very valid reason to cut someone.

Hehehe...see, it pays to never burn bridges! If women don't want things like this to come back and haunt them, they should be nicer people.

Tom Earp · #4 10-06-2006, 03:57 PM

If I am correct, this must have been a BF/GF H S thing as her Ex BF just joined SN.

If this person is so bad, I think the Chapter would have some smart women in it and will catch on very quickly.

Crying wolf can make you look like a former G F who carrys a grudge.

If you contact said chapter, I would suggest that you only say be careful of this girl and leave it at that.

If it is not your chapter, then so what? If she does get in, she is only one person out of the many who are members.

Xidelt · #5 10-06-2006, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp

If I am correct, this must have been a BF/GF H S thing as her Ex BF just joined SN.

If this person is so bad, I think the Chapter would have some smart women in it and will catch on very quickly.

Crying wolf can make you look like a former G F who carrys a grudge.

If you contact said chapter, I would suggest that you only say be careful of this girl and leave it at that.

If it is not your chapter, then so what? If she does get in, she is only one person out of the many who are members.

Tom Earp: Creeping everybody out in yet another sorority thread...

tunatartare · #6 10-06-2006, 09:42 PM

mind if I use that in my signature?

Xidelt · #7 10-06-2006, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by KLPDaisy

mind if I use that in my signature?

Yes! I'm so honored!

DolphinChicaDDD · #8 10-06-2006, 10:06 PM

I once wrote a letter about someone I knew was going through recruitment. I knew her from when I was teaching at her high school (obviously, I'm about 5 years older than her) and she was not a nice person(and she also plagurized the heck outta a paper). She went to my alma matter, which made my situation a bit different, but I called the recruitment chair of my sorority said who I was, and just talked to her. I said she may have changed from between grad hs in June and going through recruitment in Jan, but this is how she acted in the past.

In the end, after meeting and talking with her, she wasn't invited back to the second round. She went on to become a member of another organization, and shes been a bit wild and overly dramatic, so in the end my chapter is glad I called.

If you feel that strongly about someone, then send an email. If the recruitment chair (or the equivelent) is willing to listen, then speak your truth. But leave out any personal feelings. Just state the facts.

adpiucf · #9 10-06-2006, 10:19 PM

Sdsuchelle,

Go to the ADPi website and download the Potential New Member profile. Fill it out with the girls' name where it requests PNM name and check off the box that says "I do not recommend this woman for membership." Then mail it to the RIM at the university she is attending. That's all. Any of us can do this on our rec forms-- aka a "no rec." Collegians who are not attending the same school can submit recs and "no recs" in many sororities, ADPi being one of those. Then put her out of your head and drop him as a friend b/c he clearly isn't a good friend to you.

chitownxo · #10 10-06-2006, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Tom Earp

If I am correct, this must have been a BF/GF H S thing as her Ex BF just joined SN.

If this person is so bad, I think the Chapter would have some smart women in it and will catch on very quickly.

Crying wolf can make you look like a former G F who carrys a grudge.

If you contact said chapter, I would suggest that you only say be careful of this girl and leave it at that.

If it is not your chapter, then so what? If she does get in, she is only one person out of the many who are members.

1) She's not "crying wolf." She has first-hand knowledge of less-than-desirable behavior. Nor is she carrying a grudge. She has made her peace with her ex and moved on.

2) It may not be her chapter, but it is her sisterhood. I see nothing wrong with her, should this lady (for lack of a better term) go through recruitment, giving her sisters a heads up. In these overly litigious days, you cannot be too careful.

3) It would be pretty difficult to just say "be careful of this girl." The members of the other chapter would, in all probability, want to know why. My organization has a procedure for informing other chapters of pnms would could be potential risk management issues; I would not be surprised to find out that ADPi has a similar system.

4) Recruitment can be hectic, and most everyone is on her best behavior. I highly doubt that this girl would tell sorority members during recruitment that her hobbies include harassing her boyfriend's ex-girlfriends and using marijuana on a non-medicinal basis. If she's crazy enough to let that slip, whether or not sdsushelle contacts that chapter becomes a non-issue. You're always better off safe rather than sorry.