dropping membership

[AUDeltaGam]

No, but I wish we did require them to return lettered items.

[TrueBlueKappa]

Originally Posted by AUDeltaGam

No, but I wish we did require them to return lettered items.

So do I! We had a few girls who resigned but still wanted to pretend they were part of the chapter. I'd see them in letters all over campus.

When my first sister-daughter decided to depledge, she was asked to turn in her NM pin and NM manual as they were property of the Fraternity.

She was willing to give me back the gifts I bought for her, but I let her keep them (it was a photo album, some stationery, and 2 shirts that bore our letters). I had no need for them and I knew that she wasn't going to be sporting them around campus pretending to be one of us.

To be honest, she was a very sweet and caring individual who had to drop because of personal family reasons, and hopefully letting her keep these items reminds her of the fun she had in the short time with the Fraternity.

[FSUZeta]

just to alay any concerns, my question was not based on my daughter.

she is doing great and is very happy in her chapter. she is looking forward to their first big party, "pledge bash" this friday nite. the theme is "the jewel in the crown"-they are to dress in victorian garb, so last week i frantically ran around to thrift stores and consignment shops looking for long skirts and frilly blouses and i mailed her pith helmet(from busch gardens years ago) and a khaki colored columbia shirt of her dad's for her date.