Californiagirls's Recruitment thread!

[33girl]

Re rush stories: it's one thing for alums who are long out of school to say "I LOVE hearing honest opinions!" There was a girl on here who told her rush story and was very honest about her opinion of ASA on her campus and it didn't bother me at all. However, if I was a collegiate member of that sorority at that school, I might feel differently. "I worked my butt off on that skit and she said it was boring? SCREW HER!!" I know we all say we wouldn't do that, but rush is an emotional time.

If you're going to post a rush story and don't want to get found out right away, don't say where you are rushing and don't post the real names of the groups. If you read old ones the PNMs are much more open. That was before bad crap started to happen.

Re white, I've heard the "below the waist" rule also - no skirts or pants. LOL at white jeans. They keep trying to bring them back and what did I see the other day? A 75% off rack full of them. Unless you're stick thin or a small child, you do not need white jeans. Bleached out jeans yes, white ones no. Guys used to look semi cute in them, but they just aren't kind to females.

[AlexMack]

Caligirl, I know you've made your mind up, but you shouldn't just leave for no reason.
Here's the thing: I go to a big northern school and because greek life isn't big up here, I figured, eh, there will be NO ONE on the board who goes there. I was tempted to just out and out use the real names because I was going through informal recruitment and saw two sororities.

Well I absolutely fell in love with one and got shut down. I wound up COBing with the other after the shut down (the initial events hadn't impressed me) and I got a bid straightaway. You know who posts on this board? My big sister. I had no clue and now I am so glad I was subtle about my comments.

You should post. Yes, we know where you are. Yes we know you're a double legacy. But I'm sure you've seen the other recruitment story threads and you know exactly what you should and shouldn't write. Discretion is important but you know that. Don't leave. Don't be scared off. These threads are wonderful to read.

[KSUViolet06]

If you do still want to have a rush thread, you could wait til AFTER recruitment to post your story. There are a few girls who choose to do that.

[GtownGirl98]

Originally Posted by 33girl

Re rush stories: it's one thing for alums who are long out of school to say "I LOVE hearing honest opinions!" There was a girl on here who told her rush story and was very honest about her opinion of ASA on her campus and it didn't bother me at all. However, if I was a collegiate member of that sorority at that school, I might feel differently. "I worked my butt off on that skit and she said it was boring? SCREW HER!!" I know we all say we wouldn't do that, but rush is an emotional time.

I had never thought of it this way. I see these posts as a way to improve and fix issues... even if you always make quota... seeing what people think about things helps... but I thought of this from an alumnae not from the collegiates side. This is a very good point.

I always thought of writing a post with misleading details (add an extra chapter or change the groups you do list). This would throw all of us overzealous people off the track.

[navane]

CaliforniaGirl7,

I'm sorry that your thread got off to an awkward start; however, I am hoping that your recruitment itself will have an outstanding ending. Good luck and have a great time!


.....Kelly

[DaffyKD]

Sure hope Californiagirl comes back soon to let us know if she found a home. Recruitment is over. I received word today that KD got 71 new members! Quota was 69. I remember back when I was in school, ceiling was 50.

DaffyKD

[SoCalGirl]

Originally Posted by DaffyKD

Sure hope Californiagirl comes back soon to let us know if she found a home. Recruitment is over. I received word today that KD got 71 new members! Quota was 69. I remember back when I was in school, ceiling was 50.

DaffyKD

Where do you think she is???? Recruitment hasn't even started yet.

[SmartBlondeGPhB]

Originally Posted by SoCalGirl

Where do you think she is???? Recruitment hasn't even started yet.

That was my thought too. She said it starts Tuesday..........

[deadbear80]

Originally Posted by DaffyKD

Sure hope Californiagirl comes back soon to let us know if she found a home. Recruitment is over. I received word today that KD got 71 new members! Quota was 69. I remember back when I was in school, ceiling was 50.

DaffyKD

I think you have your schools mixed up. She said there's a Delta Gamma chapter at the school she's rushing. No California school that's done with recruitment that has a DG chapter has had a quota that high. I'm sure Californiagirl7 will come back when she's feels comfortable posting. And she did say recruitment starts this coming Tuesday--so I'm sure it'll be a while!

[DaffyKD]

Originally Posted by deadbear80

I think you have your schools mixed up. She said there's a Delta Gamma chapter at the school she's rushing. No California school that's done with recruitment that has a DG chapter has had a quota that high. I'm sure Californiagirl7 will come back when she's feels comfortable posting. And she did say recruitment starts this coming Tuesday--so I'm sure it'll be a while!

Based on the houses she listed, it appeared she was at SDSU which has finished recruitment with a high quota.

DaffyKD

Originally Posted by CaliforniaGirl7

Actually I wouldn't want anyone to beg me, and I can post by whatever rules I like. I can say I'm going to UCLA and I am a double legacy. I know what the consequences are for not being discreet, and therefore whatever happens I can only blame myself. However, due to some comments made about my identity I have chosen not to post my story. I honestly don't feel that it is safe for me to share my opinions on this forum. I don't see anything wrong with that. I honestly hope that most sororities don't treat all PNMs this way.

Originally Posted by DaffyKD

Based on the houses she listed, it appeared she was at SDSU which has finished recruitment with a high quota.

DaffyKD

She's at UCLA, which starts this week.

[OtterXO]

Originally Posted by DaffyKD

Based on the houses she listed, it appeared she was at SDSU which has finished recruitment with a high quota.

DaffyKD

SDSU doesn't have a Chi-O chapter