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Originally Posted by Animate
While I'm not putting your guy in the clear in this situation because he obviously needs to improve, asking him to basically choose between you and his fraternity is extremely selfish of you. This is something that is important to him, how would you feel if asked you to choose between him and something that was important to you? Yes, you all should be dedicated to each other if you are going to be in a relationship but expecting him to basically turn away from his fraternity when you want to be with him is unfair. Just because you may feel that you are a priority does not necessarily mean that you aren't. You admitted that you don't exactly understand things since you aren't Greek so at least you recognize that. I liken fraternities and sororites to smaller versions of a family. You don't like everything about them, you don't like everyone in them, but you love them anyway and there is a strong sense of loyalty and obligation at times. Would you like it if he didn't get along with some of your closest friends and then asked you to choose between him and them?
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However, you do have a point. it is important to him and thanks to you, i will try to be more understanding. i guess ill try to make an effort cause i feel bad that hes in the middle.
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