Helicopters, Snowplows and Recruitment

[DGTess]

IMHO, they go too far when they push snowflake into *any* action the student would not take for herself.

When they obtain recs, vice pointing daughter to the resource; when they complete paperwork prior to rush; when they keep track of every detail of daughter's rush week ... When they *do* instead of *advise*

This is *daughter's* life, not mom's.

ETA: I'm not a southerner. I knew my life would not end if I didn't go greek. I knew daughter's would not end if she chose not to involve herself in a Greek system (UTexas) that does not fit her personality at all.