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[amIblue?]

I think you should have your daughter ask her for a rec.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by amIblue?

I think you should have your daughter ask her for a rec.

DEFINITELY!!!!!

[carnation]

Good thing that she doesn't need one for that group!

Aaaand yet another daughter now knows that her relative is a perp. I wasn't going to tell her but...

[ComradesTrue]

Originally Posted by amIblue?

I think you should have your daughter ask her for a rec.

Except even a perp could get away with this. She just says "sure, send me your stuff." The PNM would then never know that she didn't actually write/send in the rec. Hopefully she hasn't already done that to unsuspecting PNMs.

[carnation]

That's been my biggest worry all along. She isn't flashing paraphernalia, just spreading the word that she's a DEF. This could definitely affect some girls' recruitments.

[SWTXBelle]

Another reason to go ahead and register with your local alumnae panhellenic, even if you think you've got all your rec bases covered.

Hey - do you know any DEFs who would be in a position to "out" her?

[amIblue?]

Originally Posted by Blondie93

Except even a perp could get away with this. She just says "sure, send me your stuff." The PNM would then never know that she didn't actually write/send in the rec. Hopefully she hasn't already done that to unsuspecting PNMs.

Except didn't carnation say that her daughter didn't need this rec? So no harm to the daughter, and if the perp has an ounce of shame, she should be embarrassed as all get out. She knows carnation knows that she isn't DEF.