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Originally Posted by LatinaAlumna
@ BluePhire:
The primary reason I posted was the 5 years off/on at (presumably) such a young age, and I should have called them both idiots.
I also do not agree that because something was "done to me" that I should do the same to others. I felt that way before I joined an organization, and still feel that way after 15 years in. So, yes, for this reason, too, he seems like an idiot to me.
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For someone who is using my alleged immaturity as an argument you're not making a great case for yourself. You have no knowledge of me, my boyfriend, or our history outside of this context. Therefore you have no right to pass judgment on me or him for a relationship you know nothing about. Obviously if we've been on and off for five years it's because we've had our struggles but have time and time again come to the conclusion that we'd like to work through them. We were very young when our relationship started, hence why it didn't work out before. We were adolescents in the midst of growing pains that warped our perspectives. Now we are adults, trying our best to work things out. No relationship comes without its struggles. I did not come here to get your criticism on my judgment and my relationship. I came here seeking knowledge about something I know very little about in the hopes of understanding someone I care about. So how about you take your blind, ignorant accusations elsewhere.