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Old 01-02-2011, 03:00 PM
knight_shadow knight_shadow is offline
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outsider's perspective/

Wouldn't it be more ideal to say something like "I really think you ladies are amazing. I love the way you all seem to get along. Seeing you is making me excited about my recruitment experience."

It shows interest without being creepy.

/outsider's perspective
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Old 01-02-2011, 03:23 PM
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outsider's perspective/

Wouldn't it be more ideal to say something like "I really think you ladies are amazing. I love the way you all seem to get along. Seeing you is making me excited about my recruitment experience."

It shows interest without being creepy.

/outsider's perspective
It's a bit formal and prepared, but yeah. It's just that this, unlike some things that are universally major faux pas, is very much a judgment call. And even someone who comes across as overly enthusiastic is probably likely to be given the benefit of the doubt. There's no perfect answer.
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Old 01-02-2011, 03:31 PM
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It's a bit formal and prepared, but yeah. It's just that this, unlike some things that are universally major faux pas, is very much a judgment call. And even someone who comes across as overly enthusiastic is probably likely to be given the benefit of the doubt. There's no perfect answer.
Got it.

Clearly, I'm still learning about NPC and its nuances
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Old 01-02-2011, 03:40 PM
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Got it.

Clearly, I'm still learning about NPC and its nuances
Nah you're fine, I just don't picture your average 18 year old saying exactly what you said
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