Married & rushing?

[KSUViolet06]

Originally Posted by rococobaby

What do you guys think of a girl who is 19 and married rushing??

Every school is different, so it really depends on the school/chapter.

Keep in mind that there probably won't be a lot of 19-year-old married women in recruitment, so it would definitely stand out if you attend a more traditional Greek school where the actives are usually non-married 18-22ish year olds.

If your school is a more traditional Greek community, members might wonder what you have in common with them, since you're married.

They might worry that you won't participate like everyone else and you'll think "I don't have time for this silly new member activity, I have a husband at home."

If there are houses, also consider that many chapters require members to live-in at some point. As a married woman, you obviously wouldn't be able to do that.

You should also consider your partner and whether he is comfortable with the social aspects of greek life at a Big 10 university. How do you plan to handle that when it comes time to attend socials?

Just some things to think about prior to rushing.